Everyone has their own definitions of what a husband is or what the should be like. What according to you should a husband be like, how do you think he should be with you or what do you expect from him?

In my opinion I accept my husband to love me and its obvious no one is in always a good mood but would accept him to be a good laugh, enjoy times with me, be understanding. If I'm wrong somewhere tell me, show his love for me. Regarding responsibilities well they should shared, and when it comes to strength well i want my husband to be my strength. But importantly if i expect something from my husband i need to show the same to him too, whether its love, care, respect or the way i behave.

Although we always accept things from out husband of what he should be like, we should know what wife is and how she should be? Which you can post about in the thread below:

http://www.womensforum.in/your-spouse/855-what-wife.html

I agree that a good husband loves his wife and shows it to her; loving "inside" and assuming that she knows it is not good enough. A good husband will also provide for the family and be a good father. Men who think that raising kids is "a woman's job" are spoiled selfish whimps. A real man is not afraid of fatherhood.

I keep on remembering this sentence from my law subject "Diligence of a good father of the family." A good husband will help the wife in everything including parenting! It's also nice if he can also do some chores heheh.

I believe that a husband and wife both have the same duties, whether they have children or not. Gender has nothing to do with anything. When two people get together, they are supposed to share and take care of all the aspects of the relationship half-half equally. One is not more or less responsible than the other. I think that is the best way to make a relationship grow and keep it alive.

Like you said Neha everyone has different definitions of what a husband is or what he should be like, as everyones expectations are different.
Im lucky as my husband lives up to all my expectations and sometimes more than what I expect and hes a gem of a person. He shares all responsibilities with me, is always there for me no matter what, supports and encourages me in every way, knows how to have a good laugh and joke around, understands me, cares for me and obviously loves me and he has many other qualities and is the way I wanted my husband to be, all in all hes perfect!

Sometimes its important for you to feel things and he makes me feel loved and cared and special, which is something important.

A husband is the closest person in which every woman could have.

In times of sickness ,only a husband can take good care of the wife as a real caregiver without hesitations.

A husband is a stronghold post in the family. His presence would complete the family.

A good husband is a good family provider.Being the head of the family,his decisions are to be followed as long as such are condoned for the family's benefits.

I respect my husband's decisions. But sometimes, i can also suggest some additions to make everything in fair.

In the family ,the husband is the good implementor for the children's discipline. As such,the children are much feared of their father.