eeh Iam the yeller

not sure i like your strategy i am sure that would make me more

btw does your wife read the posts ?

send me your husband's email, I'll send him my technique.
(and the Calvin and Hobbes comic) you are a woman right?
If you are a man I'll send it to your wife then.
Plese print this and give to your spouse



My wife has no idea I am hanging out in a womens forum
dishing out advice on health, beauty and relationships

-F

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lol lol lol lol lol

would you reciprocate with her id

why not, better yet, I'll introduce her to you if we visit
Bangalore ;-)

-F

where are you based ?

I do not know anyone that does not fight with their spouse . Instead of talking about fighting . What are some of the ways that you and your spouse work it out . My husband and I go for walks or sit and read the Bible together.

Honestly,i don't fight with my husband. He is hysterical person..When we have argument ,he doesn't want my explanation. I let him talk freely.Then, i walked out..After an hour .when i get back at home. he's calm already. He is unique, right?

Yea that is unique, but it is not unheard of . There are alot of couples that are like that . My husband is the one that just let most things roll off and just move on ... I am the one that most of the time does the ranting ....especially when he is on the PS 2

I think "fights" happen when both people do not want to listen. Each one wants to rant, they feel they have been wronged, and often there is some accumulated resentment from the past, too. That's why it is so important to have clear communication, daily. If something displeases you, tell him and explain why - don't wait until he does it 100+ times, and you are so mad you can't talk about it calmly.

Lissy you are right ... Unfortunately a lot of couples dont communicate the way that they should . I know that is alot of the reasons couples in general have issues and some times it ends up in a divorce .

your husband is really unique, gingging! but you are such an understanding wife and not a war freak. letting him talk and waiting him to be calm is right. me and my husband fight very seldom. when his voice is already in a high pitch , i just don't mind him and shut my mouth. just thesame when i'm the one who is in high pitch, he gets out of my way and wait for me to be calm.

giving each other the space for their angers is the right to do to avoid the clash of both partners.

Pochay
you are so right when you said that it is a good thing to avoidthe clash because it could really cause some really big problems .

Its natural to fight, you have fights in every relationship and this include a husband and wife relationship. I think that any person who doesn't have any fights with their spouse the relationship is not normal. Your bound to have differences and argue over things its natural, as no two people are exactly the same.

You are right Aamna, of course you and your spouse have differences, but why should you fight over them?? Two adult, civilized people should be able to explain things to each other, talk them over vs. shouting insults. I do what is productive: addressing the problem. Fighting, in most cases, is not productive because emotions run wild, and nothing is getting solved.

I think anyone you are close to is going to be someone you fight with, it's just bound to happen. I think it's healthy as long as it doesn't become physical or hurtful. Fighting can get ugly and NO ONE should have to deal with that. It's not worth it!!

Of course I fight with my hubby, i mean its not something good or to be happy about, but everyone fights. Its normal, and I would say a couple who doesn't fight are not normal people or a normal couple!