Do you find yourself getting jealous when other woman pay special attention to your spouse?

I have learned in my many years of being married, that it isn't worth the stress to get jealous. I usually will just tease my husband if someone seems to be coming on to him. We laugh it off together.

No, not at all. I think I would only be concerned if my husband seemed to like it or responded to it to encourage more attention.

My husband seems to have the habbit if attracting the older ladies (and I mean old)! He was once working at a ladies house, and her husband was working away. she asked my husband if he would like to remove his top so she could have a look at him!!! So he politely declined and told her he was married with children!!

Wow bubble, your husband must be a really good looking fellow! Old ladies can't resist!

I don't get jealous because my husband does not give me reasons to. He will be polite, but he won't respond to flirting.

My wife doesn't have this problem. Women don't
flirt with me since I am too ugly.

Here's what I look like



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How charming the prince is ....

It's good to just laugh it off, while the attention gives him an ego boost let him enjoy it after all it's you he goes home to. I wouldn't mind if it happens to my husband, when I get attention from other men he is great, not jealous at all, sometimes I don't think he even notices

Actually, I love it when other women pay attention to my spouse - it just makes me so proud of him! I think it is good for his ego as well, so we both enjoy it when that happens. If you have a great relationship, this kind of stuff won't bother either one of you - after all, you can always look as long as you don't touch, no?

It's like for your eyes only? lol Well I agree. Getting jealous is not healthy in a relationship, it just gives an idea that you don't trust your partner.

JEalously......worst enemy for any married couple.....

Pls donot mix jealousy with possesiveness....coz both r different.....

Jealousy is not really that bad in a relationship. When you find your partner jealous, it made you feel that you are important to your partner, do you agree? During the early stage of our marriage, I was really jealous of everything. But good thing my partner is understanding so he tries to clear small issues before it gets worst. Now, I trust him more than before.

ah, jealousy is a worm that eats into the relationship when the partner is insecure.
But if there is no reason to believe that the husband is giving other women more than an interested look... why bother! It's the same interested look I would give to an attractive man.

Well I wouldn't feel jealous if my hubby keeps mentioning how pretty other girls are in front of his friends while I'm beside him. I feel sad that he has time complementing others but not me. T_T

No matter what type of relationship we are talking about, jealousy is a poison that ruins everything. When you love something, you let it free and do not taint it with negative emotions.

I used to jealous of my husband when so many of his colleques talk to him, i feel so much discouraged too by seeing that he is chatting with them, we finally land into cold war when we are newly married, later, i understood that i'm mistaking him when he told that "he loves me more than anyone else".

Besides, chatting with others is a totally harmless thing. We are allowed to talk, joke or have fun with other people even when we're married. Trusting your spouse is an important part of the marriage and when it's not there, it is really hard to make things work.

I don't mind if other women start paying attention to my husband. It just reinforces my belief that I am blessed with having him. I suppose I would mind if he started giving them back undue attention, but fortunately, he never has given me cause for jealousy or suspicion. In fact, he shares it with me when he thinks someone is coming on to him.

i get jealous if i see reason to be. i don't throw a fit over imagination such as thinking he's out with another girl if he's not yet home or something.

I don't feel jealous when other woman pay attention to my husband.The only thing that makes me jealous that when my husband hired a lady worker then ,they always go together especially when they travel in a couple of hours.

The good thing to conquer jealousy with my husband,is to avoid thinking negatives on him whenever he has a lady companion.

Sometimes jealousy implies much love to your husband. But, it must not be carried to result worst outcome.