When I was single, I had a mental list of qualities I wanted to see in my future husband. It was not a long list, and some of the things on it were negotiable, but others I wouldn't compromise on. I am happy to say that I pretty much got what I wanted.

Did you have such a list? Did it come to pass?

It took me a while to figure out what I wanted, but I know now that I found it.. not sure if I ever want to get married though, cuz marriage is such a scary thing for me. (I saw my mom get divorced/have relationships go bad many, many times)

It scares me that I could honestly see me marrying the person I'm with now. He's just everything I've always wanted, but it scares me, because it seems too good too be true, I guess. I can get so negative, and I worry that if I get too close, or am too happy, something bad will happen. I have trouble with worrying that I'm not good enough, and that the person wants more and that they'll get bored with me.

I wish I had more to offer sometimes...

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-Brittany Brydahl

Marriage isn't all that bad. Sometimes people fear it for some reason, thinking that for some reason things will go bad as soon as you tie the knot. It does not have to be that way, and if you have chosen the right person, it shouldn't.

I always knew what I specifically wanted as well and yes, he is the very image that I had in mind, to the most minute detail, except for the looks as I never had a preference that way, even though he's just gorgeous. It is normal that what we envision comes to pass though - that's how everything else works in life.

I find that so fascinating that both of you got exactly what you wanted. I think that's awesome.. proves that you waited until you found what you wanted. I, in the past, rushed into relationships even when I knew they weren't what I wanted.

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-Brittany Brydahl

This is so not what I expected to happen. When I was young I really want to have a bf without any vices at all because I hate my dad's vices. But in the end all my ex bf's and the current hubby of mine do have vices like drinking. O.O So much for getting my hopes up. I do not think that we should just look for someone who is just made up of something from a list. That's what I learned from the ugly truth movie haha.