To ensure that your man all for you and you keeps you happy then get treated like a princess. Involve him in helping you around the house. Ask him to take up the responsibilities of the house equally with you. The house and kids are his too just remember that. Ask him to help in kitchen and laundry. Picking up the kids from bus stop and dropping them their can be done buy them. You can even ask your man to feed the grown up child while you are busy with the new born or the younger child. Make him a part of your pregnancy not only in conceiving the child but also all through the nine months so that he understands what you are going through to give birth to his child.

If we ask them or not, it is their responsibility to get involved in our works, there will be more thrilling and enjoyable when both wife and husband maintain their house with full commitement, then only they can lead a " HOME SWEET HOME".

This is what irritated me about my ex, he would practically never help me with the dishes and cleaning. He was sooooo dirty!

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-Brittany Brydahl

Absolutely, the man should share in the work. It is his house and his kids, too. I can't stand guys who think housework is "women's work" and won't do so much as take their dirty dishes from the table to the sink, let alone wash the dishes. That's just wrong. The wife is NOT your free housemaid!

my partner is always helping me around the house. like today, he will do the laundry while I am working at the office