LOL. I hate it. May partner always requests me do the sexy dance/strip tease before going to bed. He says he could have a good night sleep if I do that. haha. I really really don't like it LOL and I never did it, never! Have you?? Do you??? sorry for LOL, I can't keep myself from laughing here .

I feel the same. I just don't feel comfortable doing something like that. A part of me wants to, but I guess I'm just not confident/cocky enough I don't think it's a bad thing, but I don't think anyone should pressure you to do something that makes you uncomfortable

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LOL, I have and I do every few days. My husband and I both love trying different things as well. Thus, we come up with quite the fun games. The most important thing is to be completely comfortable and relaxed with each other. When two people are together, there is no shyness or embarrassing things. Have fun but if you don't feel comfortable doing certain things, just tell your boyfriend and suggest something else instead.

Sounds like a plan to me. I'm still working through my shyness. The way I was brought up, it was hard for me to even have sex to begin with and I always looked at sex as such a negative thing, because my mom slept around a lot. I'm working through it though.. it's just hard to change what's been imprinted in your mind for so many years

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Haha. I really want do dance actually, but just like you abeja, I am not too confident to do that!!! I am afraid to look silly in front of him, and my dance would look funny instead of sexy!

Hi ButterflyEs, how do you that? I am a bit embarrassed to do that in front of him actually (he even told me that he's buying a pole gah!), I am a shy type of person... But I wanna do that, really! I watch videos that would serve as my tutorials lol but it's so hard to execute them hahahah

I think I would have a very hard time doing something like that as well. I'm not a very outgoing person, and it's not in my personality to do it. Why don't you sit down and talk to him. Maybe you should tell him that doing that makes you feel uncomfortable. I'm sure he'll understand.