Often when we are at the courtship stage, we try to please our partners with so many things. We plan surprises, buy gifts, admit our love for them, excite them and please them in every possible manner. But once we get married, all the charm is lost because we start taking our spouse for granted. This weakens the relationship. So, if you too are facing such situation then it is time to rekindle that teenager love between you and your spouse. Let us find out how you can please your spouse.

Everybody wishes to get something they like. Do you not love to that gift which you have always craved for? Similar is the case with your spouse. It is not only about arranging a gift but also about finding just the precise thing that will please your spouse. Try to figure out what is that on which your partner is keeping an eye and planning to buy. Surprise him/her by getting that very thing before he/she gets it. You can also plan some surprise party or vacations without your spouse’s knowledge.

In a happy marriage it is very important to be romantic. For this reason, try something new in your bedroom. Try to excite your partner with innovative things. Be creative and do what you are not expected to do and your spouse will surely love it. Remember that it is plausible and alright to be wild with your spouse in your private space. You can also plan a romantic day/night out just for two of you. Children do add to the fun of the family but it is great to be alone with your spouse on a romantic escapade at times.

It is very important to let your spouse know how special he/she is in your life. Sometimes saying I love you in an innovative way can also do wonders. So, just free yourself and try new things to please your spouse.

Yes Sharan, I am very much agree with you, we all should arrange gifts for our spouse even if there is a small occations, we should try something new in bedroom as it refreshes our relationship. Dedication is must for life long relationships.

I suppose in this situation im quite lucky, as my husband is quite the romantic type and he always gestures me with little gifts all the time.
He would just come from work with a gift, or if im working late and i come home i would see something wrapped up on the bed waiting for me, which is very sweet of him.
When it comes to showing love to each other, were good in that part, or we can say because its not been so so long since we have been married, lets see what happens further down the line. Hopefully it will stay this way, as hes the kind of person who shows his love the way i like it.
Mind you i also show him my love in the way of gifts or saying the simple i love you, and i think its important to give something if your want something too, its not just women who need love or caring to be shown but men need to be given the love and care too. Obviously anything wild in your private space will always please your husband!

Pleasing your spouse is always nice, i get very happy when i give my husband a gift, and its not just me giving him gifts i also get showered with gifts from time to time. It's these little things which keep the relationship alive, and we gesture each others little efforts and love towards each other.

I think that a gift doesn't have to be expensive or very high tech, its the thought that counts and the fact that your husband has thought about you.

personally, I would be pleased to find a flower or a bunch of it given to me even if theres no occassion. So youre right on that, you dont have to be rich to be able to give expensive gifts that would please your better other. Its being thoughtful that counts the most.

I think it may not be possible to always please someone. What happens when things just seem to be getting out of hand? It happens.

It is easy to say " i love you" to our spouse . How can this be proved? It is by giving something that would please our spouse in a special way around.

Giving complements to our spouse's accomplishments can also please his/her heart .

In times of failures and disagreements with our spouse, saying the word "i am sorry" could be a great help of reconciliation. It softens the heart and be pleased.

Some spouses have hard sense of articulation in saying " i am sorry " to their partner..Their way of reconciliation is to give good treats to the partner. .For me, the simple word " Sorry" surpasses the pains.

Well, of course things do not always run smoothly in a family, and when there are bumps on the road, they need to be worked on. But I guess what we are talking about here is not bumps on the road / problems, it is the importance of not taking your spouse for granted once we're married. Remember how nice it was to pick a nice gift for them, to prepare a surprise; how we loved watching their joy. We should still do it in married life, I agree.

Pretty old post. Still want to add my 1 cent.

There is no specific way to please your spouse. The thumb rule is respect each other's privacy and what you expect from him/her is the same way around.

The words like 'i love you' and 'sorry' really mean a lot to your partner and has to come genuinely. Women have a strange way of sensing the obvious and you cannot really fool them. They are very patient and can register events like an elephant

What men tend to ignore maybe something so important to your lady. Be there for each other during good and bad times and your relationship will be at its best forever.