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Old 07-31-2009, 11:09 PM
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How much trust do you and your spouse have between each other?

I mean to what extent do you trust each other, do you share everything with each other, tell each other every little thing to each other?

Has the trust changed after marriage if you had a love marriage?

In my case, well I don't think my husband trusts me enough in order for him to share things with me. Before our marriage we used to share a lot of things, no matter what it was, passwords, feelings literally anything. I knew he had an email id which i found out about much later, and asked him for the password, and ignored this and then said you don't need to know it, there is nothing in there. What do I make out of all this that he doesn't trust me, or hes hiding something. We talk about trusting each other and making things work, then he comes up with something like this!!!
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Old 07-31-2009, 11:51 PM
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My hubby & myself trust eachother, instead i only open my hubby's mails, sometimes he tells me to send mails from his id everything i only do to him, we frankly share our things, ideas, & thoughts with eachother. We try not to misunderstand eachother. If at all there is a problem with your hubbies, both of you try to sit & talk to each other, the problem will be solved.
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I have just kind of left it now, as he just simply said that there is nothing in there and put it straight that 'no i wont give you the password'!!
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Old 08-01-2009, 06:46 PM
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I trust my husband completely and this trust is mutual. We have nothing to hide from each other and we have a great communication between us. I think that trusting your life partner makes things much easier in a relationship and gives you peace of mind.
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Sorry to hear the way things are with you and your hubby Aamna, and hope they get better and things get cleared out.

Its important to have trust in your relationships, and if it comes to small things like passwords for emails, then its something to do with trust. Im not taking sides, but Aamna it may be the case that your husband is thinking that you dont trust him and asking for his password, but on the other hand if you asked he should give it without reason.

The best thing would be to talk about this with him and ask him whats his reason.
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Well in my opinion, I think he's into something. Because for me, if he is not hiding anything or doing anything that he think you will be mad of, he wont mind giving you the password, to think that it's just a password! But just like what I have said, it is just my opinion.
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I think that an email is just like a cell phone. Although we like to think that we have mutual trust with our partners, there are things that should be left private so that each one would be able to keep his or her identity. If your husband does not want to share that particular email with you, respect his wishes, but tell him that you still trust him as before. He will entrust it to you in the long run. Just give him some time to enjoy his individuality.
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Old 08-07-2009, 09:20 AM
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Aamna, let me ask you this question.
Why do you want the password to that particular email account?

I think the answer will tell us a lot.

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Old 08-07-2009, 01:09 PM
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Trust is really important in all relationship. Do you know that trust is one thing that you should treasured? This like a glass that once it will be broken its not so easy to assemble.
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Trust is a good tool to lengthen the relationship especially in marriage..When a partner travels to and fro for a number of days, put your trust on him/her..Surely, everything goes smoothly.

I do trust my husband to the fullest .Then ,he reciprocated to trust me too.This trust that i mean,is related to marriage fedility. This is the foremost point of trusting each other.

There are also some other things to consider how we imply trust in marriage..As respect to a partner, there are considerations that things are not openly shared.

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How much trust do you and your spouse have between each other?

I mean to what extent do you trust each other, do you share everything with each other, tell each other every little thing to each other?

Has the trust changed after marriage if you had a love marriage?

In my case, well I don't think my husband trusts me enough in order for him to share things with me. Before our marriage we used to share a lot of things, no matter what it was, passwords, feelings literally anything. I knew he had an email id which i found out about much later, and asked him for the password, and ignored this and then said you don't need to know it, there is nothing in there. What do I make out of all this that he doesn't trust me, or hes hiding something. We talk about trusting each other and making things work, then he comes up with something like this!!!
A relationship would worked out well when each have trust for each other. For me, it isn't necessary that we share everything. I mean, I would let my partner have his own privacy. Do you have doubts with your husband? The better way to solve that is to talk to him before it gets worse.
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