My 17 yr old has a friend who is also 17 and he just got an apartment. He use to live with his father, but was having problems, so his father called the mother and told her to come and get him (she lives in a different state). He told his mother that he wanted to spend his senior year at this high school, so she is now paying for an apartment for him!

I am starting to freak out about this! I have always trusted my sons decisions, but was always able to check up on what is is doing.
What do you think about a 17 yr old having his own apartment?

In my opinion, as long as they are responsible, there is nothing wrong with a 17 year old having their own apartment. I left home just as I was turning 16 and had my own apartment as well. I was going to school and working at a part-time job. My parents helped me out a little in the beginning but then I was all on my own. I believe getting out there early helps us become more independent earlier in life and teaches us responsibility.

I would say, honestly, it depend on the teenager. I mean there are some that are very responsible, have jobs and are ready to make that choice. Before letting them do so, I would have a really long talk with them and just make sure they know what they're getting themselves into.

I wish my mom would have given me space like that! She was very controlling and would not let me leave until I was 18. I think giving your kids space is what will keep them with you because they won't feel the need to rebel

Wow! Well I would not allow my daughter to stay in another state on her own at 17. You are still responsible for them. I don't care how mature they are, I think it's a bad choice.
Couldn't he move in with a friend?

Moving in with a friend is a great idea.

Also, I think there are ways that teens can sign up to be emancipated from you, so that you are no longer responsible for what they do. I'm pretty sure the rules are strict though, like they have to have a job and things like that. Not really sure....

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