Womens Forum

Go Back   Womens Forum > Pregnancy and Parenting > Parenting > Teenagers

Reply

 

LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 08-04-2009, 09:13 PM
KANTHA PRASAD's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: kakinada
Posts: 292
KANTHA PRASAD is on a distinguished road
Default Can't believe!!!!!

Recently, i've seen one teenager( < 15yrs) is smoking cigarrete, i felt very bad regarding this, and didn't keep quite, i shouted at him though there are public around, i don't think he'll repeat it again, as i have insulted him in front of everybody, he felt guilty of himself. Later, one fine day he came to me and said i felt very bad but it changed my life, now i'm working for my sick mother, pray for her, and Thanked me for scolding him. I request my friends also do the same and change lives.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 08-04-2009, 11:46 PM
Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Texas, USA
Posts: 76
Alka is on a distinguished road
Default

15 years old and smoking, god thats bad! Well done Kantha for pointing it out to the boy, even though he may have felt insulted, atleast he quit.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 09-15-2009, 01:40 PM
abeja_reina_1989's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Seattle, Washington USA
Posts: 3,662
abeja_reina_1989 is on a distinguished road
Default

I think that was very brave of you! Good for you I think it's so sad when teens do things like that. It's so easy (I know because I'm just coming out of that phase myself) to think about what you want today and not think about what it may cause in the future.

I'm so proud to say I've never drank or done drugs in my life!!
__________________
-Brittany Brydahl
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 09-15-2009, 02:51 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 555
bethoven is on a distinguished road
Default

I don't think I could do that. Well, the boy was nice. I hope his friends would follow what he did. The street children in our country smoke a lot and I don't think they would listen if someone would tell them to stop. By the way, was the boy working?
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 06-30-2010, 12:11 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2010
Location: India
Posts: 367
Zilsha Shah is on a distinguished road
Default

It might seem hard to believe but the reality is that no one waits till 20 (or to become an adult) to start smoking..boys start it in thier early teens itself... It is just to show off their maturity, imitate elders, and due to peer pressures teenagers start up smoking.. And become addicted and find it impossible to quit..

Last edited by Zilsha Shah; 06-30-2010 at 03:53 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 02-25-2011, 04:09 PM
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Next to Seattle, Washington, State.
Posts: 4
Hear&There is on a distinguished road
Thumbs up Well...

More often then not, kids who grow up around things that we consider bad, end up doing them. I have drank before. Once with friends about two years ago. I threw up allot that night. And a few times I have taken shots with my mother, because she was once a drunk, I don't like her drinking alone. One or two shots, every four months, isn't going to kill me or get me addicted. I have been doing this with my mother for about six years. I am almost 18. But I know how to control myself and know that it is legal to drink with my mother (in her house) because it is under her supervision (even though I'm watching her) and is considered a religious thing. (I don't know how...) I have never taken any substances illegally, have never smoked, will never smoke, am not an alcoholic and never wish to have anything injected in me or some how put in my body that makes me feel "good" and could potentially kill me.
I would have gone about talking to the kid a little bit differently, but I always find different ways to do things. Good job to you and great to the boy, blessed be!
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT +5.5. The time now is 12:51 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.3.0