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Old 06-07-2009, 12:00 PM
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Default Adavantages of being single

I see many advantages of being single, so for all those women (and men) out there who are single, worry not and be happy for a change that your single.

I find single life quite enjoyable and the main reason for this is that I can do whatever I want without anyone stopping me or telling me Im wrong or its bad. I live the life i want, do whatever i want, whether it calling someone, meeting someone, going out somewhere or eating something, I basically feel free!

Like many people say its good to have a partner, but don't get pressurized by this and force yourself into a relationship, things happen when they are supposed to, meanwhile enjoy your single like and make most of its advantages
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Old 06-08-2009, 11:34 AM
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Hi,

There are so many advantages being a single. When we are single, we have a lot of time for ourselves, friends, games. We can easily fix dates
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Old 06-08-2009, 01:12 PM
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I think I don't need to explain more as i always feel lots of advantage present of being single and i don't want to marry also.
But problem is my parent will not be agree with my decision.
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Old 06-15-2009, 01:13 PM
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Hi Rupu,

Parents can not look their children bachelor for a long time. And I think they are right because its all parents dream to see their grand children. Me too stuck in married life
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Old 06-19-2009, 02:06 PM
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well ......getting married or remaining single is an individuals choice but yes ......both ve merits n demerits...
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Old 06-19-2009, 07:43 PM
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well this is individuals choice of getting married or to remain single, both have their merits and demerits. But i would like to add here that being single at a certain age you have the feeling of loneliness at that time you need someone.
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I think I don't need to explain more as i always feel lots of advantage present of being single and i don't want to marry also.
But problem is my parent will not be agree with my decision.
I know rupu, parents never like this decision that you dont want to get married, but in the Asian community its a must. And with time its easy to understand why. I have about 2-3 years yet until my parents will start hassling me.........I think.
Yes there are advantages of being single and being your own way and doing things your way, but as i haven't thought much about marriage yet i don't know what advantages of married life actually are, but im sure there are lots.
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Old 06-23-2009, 08:50 AM
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Staying single is a choice. I feel a lots of advantages of a single person, I agree to Preeti, you can do whatever you want. Will there could be a point that you will say " enough being single"?
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Old 06-27-2009, 06:39 PM
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yes being single is an advantage specially for girls is when thy r independent, qualified, ve a career, set of good supportive n understnding frens n family.

in todays life, a girl def has her own views on every single aspect of life.....which might jus not be the same as a lot of other ppl n still she can confidently stand up for the same......

also, girls who ve these qualities ve a fear or are scared tht wht if my husband not allow or not like a lot of things ...... n she has to stop ....
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When you got married you have plenty of adjustment to do. Just like me, when I got married my husband didn't allow me anymore to go in a bar with friends, having nightlife, I have no choice but to follow my husband. If you'll find a man like my him, are you willing to give up everything just for him?
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Old 07-03-2009, 04:25 PM
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no i dont think so at the first place i would get maaried to someone who doesnt have a similar idea of life.....

infact ....i would say .....i would want to join him in all his activities n he shud join me in the same way.....
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Freedom to do what you want without asking for your husband's permission. No other responsibilities to think about like saving for your child's education etc. You can do anything at the spur of the moment...like traveling etc. What I mean is...when you're single, your first priority is yourself (aside from your parents, siblings) but when you're married already, life changes. You prioritize your husband and kids above anything else!
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There could be lots of advantages of being single. Well, based on my experienced, it's really nice to be single because you're the boss of yourself. Am I right?
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Old 07-22-2009, 01:15 AM
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Yeah being single means having yourself to yourself only. It feels kinda lonely somehow doing things only on your own. I can't live without any company so I can't be old and still single.
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I agree with the advantages of being single; however, I would like to point out that even if you are not single, you can still have a lot of time to yourself. Just because you have a partner doesn't mean you leave out the rest of your life before he or she came along. Thus, I think being single and having a partner are both great things that we can enjoy, especially if you are in a relationship and communicate well with your partner.
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I agree that there are lots of advantages in staying single. As what I've experienced before, you're the boss of your life. But getting married is also enjoyable especially if you have already your own family. What do you think?
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After 25 years of being married, I'd like to be single again. No one to pick after or to quarrel with. No one to nag. Live the way I want.
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Old 07-24-2009, 02:33 PM
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Well it is really tiring to be in a relationship. But if you're already old at 50's or something you will need some company in life. You don't want to end up being single without kids to take care of you.
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While there are many advantages of being single and I also enjoy those, sometimes I feel tired being single. It is not always enjoyable to do whatever you want without anyone telling not to do that.
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You're perfectly right, glory11. I had experienced that before maybe that true, that if you are getting matured then you think you're done from being single. My other single friends, keeps on saying they already wants to get married but nobody is proposing them.LOL! Do you believe that being single could be tedious?
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Old 08-08-2009, 02:17 PM
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Advantages to being single.

1. You can do what you want when you want to do it.
2. You do not need to share you space with another person.
3. You can spend money and not feel guilty
4. You learn to be responsible for yourself.
5. Nobody who will complain about your bad habits.

And many more reasons
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Being single is great! People should enjoy it while they can. I don't know what all the fuss is about. Marriage can wait. The best thing about being single is having to think of no one other than youself; you get to do what you want when you want.
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Big difference when your still single and being married. You have to prioritize things and accountable with your actions as well as your time. Being single means thinking of what will make you satisfied and happy. Being married your thinking the full package of who you are now, your husband/wife and your kids too.
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I just don't think I could be the bigger person and put someone else before myself. You'd have to tell your significant other where you're going and when you'll come back, too.
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There's really a great difference between single and married. Of course, both of them has advantages and disadvantages. If will focus on its advantages, for sure we could innumerate as many as we can. However, being the boss of your life could be one of the big advantage that being single can gave us.
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