We're on the same boat but I got 3 aunts who are still single at their mid forties. I don't know why they don't want to date someone since I can sense that one of them wants to have a bf but she thinks that it isn't a good idea since she was a former nun.

I think some women are more content with a quiet life. The people that are on my dad's side of the family who aren't married don't really do anything except go to work, church, and the grocery store. It's a little sad. I wish they would at least do something for themselves.

My aunt don't even get bored of her everyday routine. I guess that's their happiness to be spending a lot of time doing things on their own.

Sometimes, its really our misinterpretation that if you are an spinster, you are lonely. Of course not! Its really a big--no, no! My aunt is alone but I never heard her that she is lonely. She has sibling, friends, nieces, nephews, to comfort her. Why feel sad?

Yeah my aunt has always a smiling face whenever I visit her. She has a lot of friends that go over her store then do some chitchat. She has some good buddies there as well as pets. She has a lot of cats and dogs which she treats as her own children.

When it comes to unmarried relatives, they usually dote on their nieces and nephews. I think that really gives them their vitality. They do a lot of traveling, too, so they probably earn the nickname of "fun aunt."

I agree with that mine spends a lot of time taking care of us especially when we were little. I can see why she don't want to raise her own family because she's already contented having us around. :P

I really look up to people like that. I honestly feel that I need to be with another person in order to feel alive. It's weird. Maybe it's because I was left home alone as a kid???

I strongly admire being single. Being single means you can live life at your terms. I personally feel that being single is more joyful than married life. Though the % of single people is very very less. Almost everybody gets married. It's good for them who are happy after marriage but mostly married people I see recommend not to marry.

Even the married people also feel that being single is much more better.

I don't think being single is "much more better" than being married.
I am married, so there goes your theory

-F

It's good that these ladies don't feel lonely. Being single or married depends on your mentality. The ultimate goal of life is to get happiness. If a person is happy being single so it's good. if you get happiness by being married than it's also good. The thing is you should feel happy. It's great that these ladies are happy being single. What is the harm if someone is single and happy. It's great!!!!!

Dear Farce
Whatever I have written is my personal opinion. Anything in this world simply exist. Our attitude makes it good or bad. Marriage is really a big happening of one's life. You may like sweets but somebody may dislikes it. Sweets simply exist. Sweets are neither good or nor bad. Whatever I have expressed is my personal opinion. I simply expressed my idea about something. Hope now you understand what I want to say. I also admire your thought of being married is better than being single.