When you are attracted to someone, do you usually make the first move or do you wait for them to say something first? For me, it's a bit of both. I tend to drop a lot of hints and I am usually the one who really initiates things and speeds up the relationship process. I think I move too quickly.

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-Brittany Brydahl

I don't think I would. I think I'm more likely to bury my feelings even if they were something small, to keep it from turning into something more. After that, I'd just ignore him. Harsh? Yes, it is. Healthy? Probably not.

I am of the opinion that the first move belongs to the guy, as well the overall initiative in starting a relationship. If I am supposed to chase him, show interest, ask out on a date, and think of what to say and do during one - I don't want such a guy, sorry.

I think every girl wants to have the guy make the first move. Things just feel more natural that way. I think every girl imagines it happening that way. That's why it's hard for most of us to make the first move

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-Brittany Brydahl

Well, if it's up to the guy to make the first move, then that takes a lot of the pressure off of us, but that's only if you like the guy. Imagine a guy coming up to you, just so persistent. If you're not used to being strong about these kinds of things, you're going to be very uncomfortable.

I'm really not good into expressing my emotions the first time I did it to my husband before we even became lovers he said to me "sorry no one can have me yet" O.O I can't believe I did that to get that answer haha.

I think it has to be a mutual effort. I'm more for dropping hints and hoping he picks up on them. Although I have been known to take the hints and bonk a guy over the head with them. But I usually only do that AFTER I've lost interest and only want to prove a point. :P

I think its on the part of the boys to make the first move atleast in my case i want that.. Even if i like a guy, i would want him to take the first move.. I believe that real worth of being a girl is when you make a boy take the first step.
I have once heard a friend of mine say:-
When a boy proposes its LOVE.,
AnD
When a girl proposes its LUST..

This statement may Sound weird but its some what true....