What is more important to you? Happiness or stability in a relationship. The reason I'm asking is because I'm really confused right now. My ex bf has all the stability in the world, and I would feel safe being with him because he has an apartment, a stable job and he can take care of himself. He also has a car. My current bf makes me insanely happy, but I feel like we would do better as just friends. He isn't very stable. I don't know if he's going to have a good job and I'm not sure that he can support himself. He's an amazing person but I feel like it's going to take him a long time to get where my ex is.

Help?!

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-Brittany Brydahl

see my reply in the other thread. (that spark)

Happiness is better for your well-being, and it's very hard to obtain. Stability doesn't always last, either, but in the end, you would probably rather look back and say how happy you were, so I think happiness is more important.

I think Happiness is the thing which matters a lot.. Even if you get all the stability in life you may miss out in happiness.and hopefully with time you can get well settled with the one who makes you happy... Remember,, with money you cant buy happiness.. Listen to what your heart says and go for happiness..