What is more important to you?
I think personality is much more important. I want someone who has a good sense of humor and is easy to hang out with and spend time with. I don't like people who get bored easily.

I also think that looks are important, because if you're not attracted to someone, then the relationship is probably not going to last.

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-Brittany Brydahl

Good thing I have both.

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I guess your wife/gf has no question then lol

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-Brittany Brydahl

Having someone that looks fine is nice, but they should have a personality. Looks will only last for so long. What do you do when the person gets old? Dump them?

That's a good point haha. Ya, I think looks mean something because you must be attracted to the person, but who they are means a lot more. If you can't imagine being with them for the rest of your life, then what's the point. That would be sad if someone started aging and they got dumped cuz they got ugly lol!!

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-Brittany Brydahl

You don't want your boyfriend or girlfriend to look too good, or they'll start to attract attention from someone else, and they might want to dump you for someone who looks better.

Very true. In High School, I always hated those guys who thought they were so hot. They always treated their gfs like crap and seemed to be cheating most of the time. It's not worth it. What i like about my bf is he's SO cute, but doesn't think he is. For some reason, he's always been rejected by girls. I'm glad though, cuz they're missing out!!

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-Brittany Brydahl

I'd rather have someone that's pretty low-key and looked over by everyone else. You don't want them to attract a lot of attention, or else people will start to wonder, "How did a person like you get a person like that?" Down goes the self-esteem.

Only if you are insecure would you feel that way. if you are in a happy stable relationship then there would be no issue.

I think my husband is a good looking guy and quite a few women have hit on him during our time together. Saying that, the women are always the 'mature' type! LOL!

I believe in the saying don't judge a book by its cover so I always make sure I get to know the person first not just because of the looks. Some good looks are so deceiving.

If a person looks good, I would suspect that he lacks some other desirable trait. If a person doesn't have anything beyond their looks, I wouldn't want to get involved. It would be a waste of time and energy.

Looks do matter but PERSONALITY is much more important. Looks may make get people intereted in you but only personality is gonna make them stay..
So i would prefer a normal looking guy with a good personality..
I would never want anyone say looking at me and my partner.. "Lucky Girl"(for getting a handsome hunk).. I think its weird and cant stand it..
I feel inner beauty is what matters... Looks only should not be our priority coz there is somethings deeper inside a person which is the only thing which sustains a relation and makes it meaningfull..