Many marriages end in divorce. Second marriages are also prone to divorce. Many couples live together before marriage and some never marry at all. As the make-up of relationships change, is it necessary or desirable to enter into a formal marriage?

Yeah you got a good point there, but I still wanted to have a formal marriage. Like what they say you can't call your partner a husband or a wife if you two aren't married.

You can't get each other's health benefits if you aren't married, either. I often wonder why people even bother to get married. It all seems so depressing and messy in the end. People who think that they're in love only end up hating each other. I guess every couple thinks that they'll be different. Love is worth the risk, isn't it?

I do not want to judge anyone, but I think living together cheapens the whole idea of Family. Yes, I know people who have strong families without being married, but they seem to be rare. In most cases, people move in and easily break up. There is no committment, no desire to take on any responsibilities, work through problems, etc.

I don't believe that it is a necessity to get married. Not because they end up in divorce, but for the simple reason that marriage simply represents a legal binding contract. I believe that if two people decide that they love each other and want to live together, they can easily do that without having to enter into a contract that brings upon many legal implications.

I guess you're right but once there's no legal contract either one of them can cheat or avoid the responsibility of being a married person. One can easily neglect them since there is no proof.

People want the quick fix solution these days, and if they can get something without having to invest anything into it or make a commitment, they are more likely to do that. I do agree with you, Lissy. You would think that the answer to a question like "why get married?" would be a simple one.

Marriage is the only relationship that can secure the meaning of love..
Only through marriage we can have relation with our partner in the way God intended..

what exactly did God intend???

Being free to enjoy maximum sex, maximum leisure, maximum satisfaction and maximum liberty in the way God intended through marriages..

wait till you get married ;-) most of the time the sex decreases as time passes ;-)

Get married at the earliest..

Is it possible to ask you a question?

Do you think that did not marry your father and your mother is you will come to life?

The answer to this question is of course not

And if you come without marriage

Will be a crime in your right

Because you will not have a family

It will be an illegitimate child

And you have no rights in this case

And therefore will not live a quiet life and natural


So we get married

In the case of marriage will be sex is not taboo

And will also reconstruct the ground

This is the law of Allah in the earth

For the continuation of life

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what is meaning of love ?

love cannot be secured by marriage ... you can love a person and not be married to him and you can love one while being married to another and you can love some one while being married to them.

ROTFL

Farce said as time passes after you are married not as you age..

@doameto why is sex a taboo before marriage , it is not necessary sex leads to illegitimate kids .. theres something called contraceptives available which can be used both before and after marriage .

Marriage is a divine relation and having a right reason to get married is really very important.. Getting married is something much more than just being together.. If a person decides to get married then it should be with the true desire of sharing life with the person..
Love can be secured by marriage..if you are in love with a person you would definitely want him/her as a life time companion..and hence would want your love to be fruitfull through marriage..

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I love Allah And I'm afraid of Allah So it will not provoke the anger of Allah

sex is a taboo before marriage

And smoking and drinking alcohol taboo

All of these things taboo to harm the human

Because Allah loves us a lot

And does not want us any damage

Because the health, body, and chastity is a blessing from Allah

Must keep it so we can live happy in safe


And the person who will choose me, his partner Is worth Have sex with him Because He is husband to me

And I am not cheap To allow any man to touch me

This is the dignity ,Islamic religion honors girl ,And confirms that the girl like jewel

Owned by is who deserve it


So the girl with the value of expensive


What is the most beautiful girl's dignity and self-esteem ?

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OK I get it

i totally understand how senoritas feel regarding marriage, but since i have not been married yet i don't have any idea what is proper or not but it any case i will still favor a formal marriage... what do you think?