Have you ever asked a guy out before he asked you? I know that some men are traditional and believe that they should ask out a woman, but I think it's good for the women to take charge, too, even more so if the guy is a little shy.

I've always made the first move. For me, everything's just kind of progressed and there's never really been a time where I was 'asked out'. Well, except with my current boyfriend, but it felt the same as in the past.

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-Brittany Brydahl

I am so shy around new people, the opposite sex included. I was too shy to talk to this boy in my class who liked the exact same things that I liked. I was terrified to say anything to him, so I didn't say a thing. Even if I asked someone out, I would always be wondering if I liked him more than he liked me.

I would ask a man out first. In fact, I have done this. I think that men are often shy and would welcome an invitation from a woman. Once, I was in the library and I saw this guy I wanted to ask out. He looked at me and I looked at him but he did not make a move. I left the library and started to walk home and then I thought...what if this could be my future husband? So, I went back to the library and he was gone. Since that day, I do not hesitate to make the first move.

I sure have. I don't believe in waiting for something to come to you, regardless of what it is and there is nothing wrong with asking someone out if you're interested in them.

I don't have a problem with people doing this, but I know that I would probably run in the other direction. I don't think that I'm that aggressive.

Oh I never tried that to a guy who is not my bf. It's kinda embarrassing to make the first move. I never really confronted any guy like that not even my crushes.