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Old 11-19-2009, 04:42 PM
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Default Does being single intimidate you?

I have been single for a quite long time and I am still comfortable with it. Do you ever feel disturbed when you are single? Do the people around you offer help and try to get you dating with someone?

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Old 11-19-2009, 08:41 PM
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I've never felt intimidated or any other negative emotion while I was single. Some of my friends had tried to fix me up with people, but I simply told them that I was comfortable with the situation and did not necessarily need someone at the time. I don't understand why people seem to think that you are missing something just because you choose to be single...
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Old 11-19-2009, 10:47 PM
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I think if you are single you should feel happy since you enjoy enormous freedom to do whatever you want!!
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Old 11-19-2009, 11:32 PM
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I did not have any problem with being single, either. I was not one of those women who thinks they've got to have a man, no matter what kind or how bad - for the sake of "status," so to speak. Yes, people pestered me about not getting married, but I told them I was going to marry the right man or stay single if I don't meet him. I did meet him when the time came.
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It's even worse in high school because people will tease you either because you don't have a boyfriend or because you've never had one before. All the people that I knew who had a boyfriend would completely lose sight of who they were outside of the relationship. I knew that I didn't want to be like that.
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Old 11-21-2009, 12:13 AM
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The only thing I ever hated about being single were those friends who were convinced you needed setting up with someone.

I had one friend in particular who seemed to think it impossible that I could ever have been happy on my own.
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Being single is not as much intimidating as it is annoying in relation to other people. I've heard people that I do not know at all recommend that I get a boyfriend. I hate it when a complete stranger will ask me out.
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Nah I think being single is fun. It's not because you're not attractive or so it's like having to do what you want without any problems with a partner.
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Old 12-02-2009, 08:10 PM
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I think that people that are in a relationship are sometimes uncomfortable with single people. There is this feeling that the single person will make a move on their spouse or significant other.
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