The main key in getting yourself noticed by the guy you are admiring is, be yourself.

So many people put too much importance on the ONE they have their eye on. If you are being yourself, and he's not noticing you, he's not worth your time. The person who's right for you will love you for who you are, and not want you to change.

There's someone out there for everyone. Patience is the key. Start building your life, figure out what you want and where you're going first

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-Brittany Brydahl

Very true. In fact, I believe that the right person comes along when you least expect them to. We don't need to pretend to be something else other than ourselves - how long can anyone keep up with that anyway?

I completely agree. From my experience, the right guy will notice you. And if you have to take extra efforts to get noticed, especially if you have to change and be different for him - he isn't for you. Too many girls don't understand it, they start chasing a guy they like. It is so not worth it.

I like to believe that men are attracted to confident women.

So my piece of advice would be to work on yourself and be comfortable and happy with your life before even getting involved with someone else.

I completely agree with the confidence thing. If you're happy with who you are and proud of it, too, then guys WILL notice you. Always. It's a fabulous way to live your life, too. Because if you're happy with who you are, then it's not QUITE so necessary to have THAT GUY paying attention to you. You no longer need that validation.

I think that society has conditioned women to believe that they must go to extremes to "catch a man". Women are taught that they must dress a certain way (maybe a mini-skirt, high heel shoes or expose a little skin) to get men to notice them.

Well the trend now is like that no more conservativeness or something that's the ugly truth. People who are attracted to these kinds of things I'm sure that they will not last for long. I can't stand being together with a person with such bogus personality.