Are you interested in a man who's ambitious? An ambitious man is always looking to better himself and do things. He has big plans for his future, but sometimes an ambitious person can lose sight of what's really important. Do you prefer a man that's going somewhere or someone who's stagnant?

Nothing good comes out of anything that is stagnant and that also goes for people. Healthy ambition is great, as it facilitates the achievement of our goals. In regards to losing sight of other things, I believe that would only be a problem where the ambitious person doesn't consider anyone or anything else as important as their goals. That in itself would be a red flag for me anyway and even though I would respect their determination, I don't think I would stick around too long.

I agree, but so many people claim that they aren't attracted to a person who isn't going anywhere or doesn't have a future. Life is a funny thing. It can change at any moment, and many people haven't found their true calling in life until much later.

I agree with you on that too. Not all people find their true calling, some search all their lives. But I was referring to the people who don't want to do anything with their existence - that really bothers me a lot.

I prefer ambitious man because he might be wll focussed in life and has future plans and all.. But in relatinship matters, i am afraid of having an ambitious men as life partner, what if he always look for better ones and may leave and aims for someone else everytime.. Does such things happen with ambitious men..??