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Old 09-26-2009, 04:30 AM
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Lots of people talk about how they want their future spouse to look like or what kind of characteristics they want him to have, but what about profession? What's your ideal spouse's profession?

I know that I would want someone that made their money using their creativity. An artist, photographer, or writer would be nice. I wouldn't mind as long as they could do their work anywhere.
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Honestly, when I was still single I don't care what the profession of my future husband as long as he is working legally and doing his part as a provider. Now my husband is a travelling teller, and I am proud of him
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I remember when my mom told me about the jobs that she didn't want her future husband to have. She never told me about ideal jobs. She said that she didn't want her husband to be a police officer, a fireman, or in the military. I don't blame her; they could die easily. I feel the same way, and I wouldn't want my husband to be a preacher, either.
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This is a good question. I think it must be a very difficult life for those who are in the armed forces, particularly at this moment in time.

I think I would just want my spouse to be happy in his work. I know what it's like to have to work in a job you really hate and it does get you down.
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I am happy with my husband's profession right now. Ideally, I always thought that it would be nice to have a spouse who is a doctor. I would get free medication and everything that concerns health. That would be great, don't you think so?
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I know for sure that I wouldn't want my husband to have a profession that was known for high levels of stress. Doctors and police officers have both high stress and high divorce levels. I wouldn't even want to marry into that; a lot of those people aren't even happy, and they have a lot of other problems.
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Actually, I want my husband to become a preacher. I know some of you don't like this profession but I do believe that this is the greatest job in the world. It's nice to be with someone who could help you grow spiritually. What do you think?
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I don't think that my spouses profession was ever a concern for me. My concern was only that he was working.

My nephew was just married last year. He didn't have a job when he got married and this caused alot of problems for them. His wife was working, he was home cooking and cleaning. He needed to be out finding a job! Not even a year later they were divorced. Her reason...he didn't have a job. If this was a concern, she shouldn't have married him until he had a job in the first place.
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I never cared about what my spouse would be doing and now that I'm married, I still don't care. Whatever they choose to do, it is up to them, as long as they like what they are doing.
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I want him to be happy and doing what he enjoys. I would like if he was making good money, so he doesn't have to worry and stress over it. I wanna do the same.
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I would want my husband to be happy, too, but I wouldn't want him to work in something that would stress him out or expose him to a lot of evil like law enforcement or working with a government agency. When men get stressed out, they have a hard time coming home and being joyful with their family. Often, the man will take out his frustrations on his wife and children. I don't want to be a part of that kind of home life.
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I dont have any such ideal spouse profession thing in mind... the only thing what concern is that he should be working and has the willingness to work hard and support the family.. I dont have great interest for Doctors don know why...
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