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Old 12-20-2008, 10:23 PM
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When single there are many advantages as well as disadvantages, but I think the main advantage which many people see of being a single is the freedom and privacy you have when being single. The freedom of doing what you want and when you want.

This is one of the reasons why people restrain from being in relationship, but its not always the case that your freedom stops when your in a relationship, as every relationship is different and still allows you have your privacy and freedom.
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Old 01-05-2009, 05:22 PM
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I think being in a right kind of relationship is the most wonderful thing that a person can experience. It's like linving two lives simultaneously and at the same time sharing your's as well. It gives a feeling of belongingness and at the same time sense of responsibility.
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The main advantges of single life
1.Financial Advantages
2.Great Night Life Areas
3.Employment Opportunities

One of the advantages to being single is the ability to focus on your education to meet your career goals

The main disadvantages of being single are:

1. Other people think you are weird because you are happy on your own.
2. Loneliness can be a factor if you don’t have many friends or family to hang out with.
3. It can be awkward when you go out on your own and you are surrounded by couples.
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Old 05-11-2009, 04:21 AM
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The main advantges of single life
1.Financial Advantages
2.Great Night Life Areas
3.Employment Opportunities

One of the advantages to being single is the ability to focus on your education to meet your career goals

The main disadvantages of being single are:

1. Other people think you are weird because you are happy on your own.
2. Loneliness can be a factor if you don’t have many friends or family to hang out with.
3. It can be awkward when you go out on your own and you are surrounded by couples.
I slightly disagree on some of your points mentioned rupali, as you can still have great night life if your with someone, nothing stops if your committed, and job opportunities don't go away if your in a relationships but if in marriage your husband doesn't want you to work that's different. Regarding financial situation, well sometimes its an advantage especially when your living with your partner, as expenses get shared, i don't see an advantage in financial situation if your single at all!!!!!

If your single there is nothing weird about it, and im sure no one thinks that either, there are so many single people and this also includes celebs and no one things they are weird.
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Old 05-14-2009, 05:29 AM
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As someone who is still getting used to being single again, I am really enjoying the freedom that comes with it. Having said that, I do sometimes miss having someone around who understands you completely and is totally on your side.

It is important to have a good social network if you're single, especially if you live alone, as it could get lonely but if you don't know many people there are plenty of opportunities around to make new friends, it just takes a little courage.
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Old 05-17-2009, 08:33 AM
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Before I had gotten married, I was pretty mich a "loner" - I didn't mix with the crowd very well and I liked my privacy. I was okay with being single, too. Now that I am married, I have a man who loves and understands me. I enjoy it. I think what matters is how you view your current stage in life.
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In addition I would say being single is simply GREAT! I have much-loved memories of being single. And it depends on the person really. There are no advantages or disadvantages per se, there are ifs, what-ifs and buts!
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I wish for a way to combine the two. I love being single, but sometimes I wish I had a steady relationship.To be able to have a relationship that allows you the freedom to have your own life. I think this is why most relationships don't work. People need room to breathe and freedom of expression and sometimes being with someone who is somewhat clingy can be very constricting.
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I wish for a way to combine the two. I love being single, but sometimes I wish I had a steady relationship.To be able to have a relationship that allows you the freedom to have your own life. I think this is why most relationships don't work. People need room to breathe and freedom of expression and sometimes being with someone who is somewhat clingy can be very constricting.
exactly my feelings...i am in the process of trying to settle down...i mean that i really want to do so...not just for companionship but alos to get legitimate babies...i love babies, so, i need a husband
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When single there are many advantages as well as disadvantages, but I think the main advantage which many people see of being a single is the freedom and privacy you have when being single. The freedom of doing what you want and when you want.

This is one of the reasons why people restrain from being in relationship, but its not always the case that your freedom stops when your in a relationship, as every relationship is different and still allows you have your privacy and freedom.
Hmm... Seems true actually but I would change one phrase.

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This is one of the reasons why people WHOA ALREADY EXPERIENCED BEING WITH SOMEONE restrain from being in relationship,
Its because I believe no one wants to be single. That's just for me though.
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Being single is as much fun as being married.....

maybe a bit more.....as a person one is able to live the life as per their own terms n independence......I select as to who r my frens, whom to meet, n live my life as my own will...

For me, yes def. i might face issues reg the same things after wedding....no doubts the guy i get married would obviosuly free minded spirit n would be compatible to me still there is some sort of responsibilty than leading a single life living alone or with parents too.....
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I find more freedom in my married life as compared to my single life. Being single there are so many restrictions from parents side, which re sometimes difficult to tolerate. But after getting married am moving more freely, and am really enjoying my freedom and finding much more fun being married.
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that is wht depends...on ur family n the freedom n trust thy ve on u...
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Being single is enjoyable when you are younger. But if you'll get old circumstances are, no one will going to take care of you.

As what I have also noticed many single woman are prone to many deceases, like breast cancer, uterus cancer and etc. What will you do if you got sick and you are alone?
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u ve got family u ve got frens ..... u ve got nursing centers......u ve got hospitals.....
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We are likely to experience everything when we are single, right? I mean, aside from your family and yourself, you don't have to worry other responsibilities. You will enjoy the company of your friends and family so you will not feel alone. I guess, for me, life is better when you are single.
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I definitely agree with you, guys. Well, of course, if there is advantages then disadvantages is also present. Am I right? But, for me, to remain single is still a choice.
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Well, I agree with you joy. But I think it's better to think more of the advantages of being single, right? Just imagine you are the boss of your life. Do you agree?
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Do you know what's one of the disadvantage of being single? Because staying with this situation could also be boring. I mean, you see your other friends with there husband or wife, some of your family member, like your cousins, nieces, nephews, and people around you with there partner. You may think of it, why am I alone?
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I know what you mean, bethoven. However, we can't deny that feelings of insecurity with the people around you who had a partner with them. Why don't you just enjoy life while you're still single, guys?
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