He moved out and took his daughter. I am left with my son and our daughter. He is still paying for everything right now. We have been together for 13 years. He says the reason he left is because our big kids can't live together. they are 16 and 15. The one suffering the most is our 10 year old.

I found a job in florida, but currently live in Texas.

We still love eachother but the older kids have too many issues to be in the same house.


What should I do???

Please help.

I am sorry to hear that. It is a difficult situation.
Can you send the older kid to live with relatives
or grandparents, in a couple of years he is going to
move out anyway.

-F

My parents offered to take one of the older kids and he shot the idea down. the oldest is his daughter.

Is there any therapy or counselling sessions that you can send
the older kids to?

-F

Also you don't have to move to a different state, you can move to
somewhere near so that the 10 year old can still visit her father
regularly.

They are both in counsiling. My son will be for the rest of his life due to the fact he is bi-polar.

well, hope things work out for the better.

-F

Hi bcw0807, do you still have a communication with your husband? Does the reason of his moving out because of your children? I mean there's no third party? Well, if that is the case, I guess you could still be together. Good luck to both of you. God Bless!

we yalk or txt eachother everyday. It is getting harder to do though. With the possibility of me relocating on his mind and mine.