There are some things in life that broke us completely and we start thinking that this is the end. There are times when we think nothing could be worse than this but believe me a breakup is not such an issue. Although it is hard to handle, yet it is not completely impossible. Life after a breakup can be as smooth as it was before it but you need to look at the brighter side of the things.

Irrespective of who is dumping whom, it is always tough to handle a breakup alone. So, what you need to do is call up your close friends. You can share your story, memories, views and anger with them. Friends are someone on whom you can rely upon, no matter where you stand. They will let you go through the sweetest period of your life again in memories and let them share it. They will let you vent out your anger and they will even let you cry on their shoulders. Just do not be alone at any cost.

Get out of home/work and do what you always love to do. You can indulge in your favorite activities, try out some new food joints, hit parties, watch movies or just have a soothing walk with a close friend. Now is the time to do whatever you have missed while you were busy dating. Do not be impatient and have firm belief that this darker period has arrived just to fade away one day.

You should also be strict on yourself so that you do not contact your ex. Life is not a road where you can take a U-turn. Accept things and move on. However, do not even try to suppress your emotions, whatever they are. Do cry your heart out otherwise you will make your heart stone for any future relationship. Lastly, keep smiling even if at times you do not feel like. This will help you live a better life.

A marriage or love relationship is a very sensitive and delicate by it's very nature. sometimes even minutest of ignorance or lack of care may lead to break-ups and divorce. so it's important not to take it for garnted and make a serious effort while pursuing it.

Think of it this way. It was best for you to break up with the relationship now than had it been in the future. This time may yet be your only chance to realize that after all, you dont deserve to be entangled into that person's life and the break up occurred because there is a better person out there for you. Or if there would be none, that being alone was far more better off for you. Just try to take a positive stride after the break up and youll be fine.

It could be hard if it is your first time to experienced break up, guys. But I think to continue your life is the best thing to do. Remember that your past relationship is not yet the end of the world. Am I right? Prayers would definitely help you.

I must say it's really hard to cope up after a breakup. You can't just throw your feelings away that easy and it takes time to heal a broken heart. In this kind of situations we should hang out with our best friends and have some fun to forget what has happened.

That could be a hard feeling, guys. Especially if you think you've become attached to your partner, however to continue moving is still the best thing to do. Why not have some travel or a vacation? This might help you to forgot him/her easily.

Well, that could be a good option to do, bethoven. However, if you'll have your vacation or travel, I think it would be better if you have with your friend or cousin, so that you have someone to talk and to laugh with. Do you agree, that you have to avoid things that could help you remember about her/him?

For me, to continue your life is the best after break up. How do you find those who thinks to stop living after they broke up? Some would even commit suicide.

Break-ups could be extremely hard; however, we have to bear in mind that for every relationship that ends, there is a reason. When we look at the reasons why it ended, that should provide a little comfort. We need to remind ourselves that if the relationship were beneficial to both parties, it wouldn't have ended anyway. Moving on and nothing look back is the best way.

It's because they thought it was the end of the world for them. They were emotionally shocked and couldn't think of anything to do with their lives after what happened. They should learn to control their emotions.

Are you aware guys, that some would get suicide just because they broke up with their partner? What can you say to those are doing this and planning to do this?

Yep I'm pretty much aware of that kind of situation. In fact many cases of suicides here are because of break-ups. Well we should give a percentage of love for ourselves not just giving your 100% to your partners because if you do you'll end up being depressed when you two broke up. That means unable to move on.

I have found it easiest to get over someone by mourning a little first. Remember there is a reason why you broke-up. There must be something about the relationship that just didn't fit.
I think you can be friends with your ex. If you have kids you should try to be friends.

My own moving-on scheme is very emotional. I would cry my heart out till I ran out of tears then always throw some tantrums it's like I'm always mad at everyone I see. The best cure for me are video games and comedy shows. When I'm busy I tend to forget some sad emotions that I have.

You're right, reira. However, they have to think more of their life in the future. Do you agree that committing suicide is a sign of being coward? I guess, the best way to think is to let go of the past and face the future.

Yeah since their minds went blank so it's like being martyr. There are a lot of people living on earth so there's still a room for love.

if breakup comes just think everything is for good... nobody is going to come with us... we born alone and we should go alone.. nothing is permanent in this world.. relationship breaks due to expectations.. don't expect anything from anyone.. if someone has left you and goes.. let them go.. live a life for yourself..

Yeah true but no man is an island right? I'm sure people who got left behind can still find someone who will love them for life.

Well committing suicide is definitely out of the question. Your world should never stop once you had a breakup. the struggle would be is how to move on and never look back in the past.

Yeah but I guess to them it's really hard to forget things those happy memories together oh well it was a waste. They should do something that would make them busy to forget those past and be able to move on.

I'm sorry what you went through!! I bet that must have been tough!! I haven't dealt with a Divorce in that way, but I have dealt with my parents going through it. It is definitely a life changing event. It was really sad for me and my siblings. To this day, my little sis still thinks it was her fault. I try to tell her again and again that it had nothing to do with her, (because, how COULD it?!?!) but she's going to councelling now, so hopefully she can figure it out on her own.

It's hard to see your parents with other people!! But, life goes on and I will make sure to not make the same mistakes they did

Life after a breakup can be filled with lots of dispair. You may feel depressed or like you're a failure. I think that it's important to surround yourself with friends and realize that you're a person with worth and that you will find someone else.

break up is a hard situation to deal with especially if you spent many years with your partner. but this is the time to move on. one need not to dwell on the situation and the past. just make yourself busy with your friends, go out and have fun.

I believe everything happens for a reason and if the relationship didn't survive, it was not meant to be anyway. Thus, contemplating suicide over something like this pretty senseless to me.