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Old 11-05-2009, 06:10 AM
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I made the mistake in my last relationship, and I realy wish I could take it back, of leaving in a very immature way. I was tired of dealing with all the drama and the stress.. I did warn him that I wasn't happy. I ended up moving out for a few days at one point, and then moving right back in. However, a few days later, things weren't looking like they were going to get any better, and I decided it wasn't worth it, so I moved out right after he went to work. I probably shouldn't have done that while he was at work, because it probably ruined his day.

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Old 11-05-2009, 09:01 AM
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Leaving is never an easy thing to do, I guess. Whether you do it with a "cool head" or in a storm of emotions, it is going to hurt, and you know it. I suppose some people just don't care about hurting others... If you do care, yes, you should be very careful.
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Well that sounds pretty harsh but you should leave a note before you leave him at least. I could've done that too since leaving really is tough and you can't help to cry while being apart from each other. I'd rather leave without him seing me because it will hurt too much. If that's ever going to happen but I wont be doing that to my loving hubz. :P
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Old 11-09-2009, 08:29 PM
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I don't think leaving like that was harsh. I think you were probably saving yourself and your partner a lot of heartache. If your partner had have been there when you left, he may have convinced you to stay.
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Old 11-10-2009, 12:14 AM
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I don't think leaving like that was harsh. I think you were probably saving yourself and your partner a lot of heartache. If your partner had have been there when you left, he may have convinced you to stay.
True. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if he did convince me to stay.

I feel like he didn't really try to get me to stay.. he just kinda let me go. It was better for the both of us though.
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Never drop a guy while you're at a function with him. I did that one time and I don't know what I was thinking. Poor guy.
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I don't think leaving like that was harsh. I think you were probably saving yourself and your partner a lot of heartache. If your partner had have been there when you left, he may have convinced you to stay.
Well this things normally happen. If you try to leave he's there to put an end to it. Thus making the whole drama scene ruined lolz.
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Old 11-10-2009, 05:10 AM
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I have always left in good terms with my ex-boyfriends even though it was still a sad occasion for both of us. I can't imagine myself leaving suddenly or after a fight though.
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