I just don't get it why my ex boyfriend keeps on contacting me. I decided not to talk to him anymore, I just think that it's the best way that he can forget about me. He keeps on finding my profiles on the internet, especially on the social networking websites. I know it's not right to push him away like that, but I can feel that he will love me more if I keep contact with him.

I am sorry that you are having this problem. I know first hand how annoying and even scary it can be. Some guys cannot take "no" for an answer. I think in those cases it may be a control issue. There are also cyber-stalkers and this can amount to criminal behavior. I do not know if it is a matter of love. It seems like if you love someone then you would respect their wishes. Either way I think that you are doing the right thing by avoiding him.

Ignoring him is the best thing that you can do. Right now, it sounds like the things he has done so far are very benign, so maybe he'll cool down and finally get the message. If he keeps it up, and it starts to make you uncomfortable, you should file a report and see if you can get a restraining order.

I think it would be best not to pay any attention to his attempts to contact you. Just ignore him and he will probably leave you alone once he gets his eyes on someone else. I believe he's just feeling a little lonely right now and trying to see if he can bring anything back, but I'm sure that won't last too long, especially if you don't encourage it.

It's been 5 years since our break up! Imagine how long it has been!!! Yes, I ignore him. I even told him lies before that I already have a baby and I'm already married, but he keeps on bothering me. And since then I never talked to him. Thanks for your advice people.

Oh, I had not realized it had been that long! In that case, he really has a problem and someone like that will probably not listen to the reason...if you want him off your back completely, you'll have to go through a restraining order as the previous poster has mentioned.