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Old 10-11-2009, 06:31 AM
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It can become so difficult when you're no longer with a person, even if you were the one who broke up with them. You miss their attention and you tend to get a little jealous for a while after if you hear anything about them being with other people. I am in this stage with my ex right now, and I'm hoping that I'm coming out of it. I'm just trying to take it a day at a time. It's hard to have someone tell you they love you and then move on so quickly. I broke up with him, but it's hard to have him tell me that he wants nothing to do with me. I'm honestly trying to give him space, but I miss talking to him and wish we could be friends. I realize that's a lot to expect
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Old 10-12-2009, 11:48 PM
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It may be too soon to be friends right now; however, it is said that "time heals all wounds". I believe the saying is true. I am sure that your ex is hurting at the moment and all he wants to do is to make the pain go away. Talking with you is probably too painful right now. The person that initiates the break up may not be in as much pain.
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Old 10-13-2009, 01:03 AM
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however, it is said that "time heals all wounds". I believe the saying is true. .
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when I went to my doctor for my plantar fasciitis the doctor said
you just need to take rest, ice it up and wait for it to heel. She said
"time heals all wounds". I then asked her why it happened in the first place
and she said "time wounds all heels"



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What you need is surround yourself with your friends and family, people who love and care about you very much. Just go out and have fun. Take your mind off everything that has to do with your ex, and you'll slowly start to forget out him.
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Thanks everyone. Farce, you're so silly
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What you need is surround yourself with your friends and family, people who love and care about you very much. Just go out and have fun. Take your mind off everything that has to do with your ex, and you'll slowly start to forget out him.
I think this is true. I have read about this so many times in women magazines :P DOn't let yourself think too much about him. You have control of you, really. It's all in the state of mind. But well, it's easy to say but I am not sure if it's easy to do. Good luck
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