When I was little, I used to think that my parents loved my brother more. I thought they favored him because he was the first born and because he was a boy. For so long, I thought that they were sexist. Did anyone have any experiences like that?

My dad used to favor my younger brother and I resented him for a long time because of that. But now, it just doesn't matter. Regardless of this issue, I was still able to keep a loving relationship with him and in some ways, I guess I can understand why he favored my brother.

Whether my parents were favoring my older brother or not, I don't resent either of them for it. I still love them all very much, but I think it's something that will always sit in the back of my mind. It'll just be an example of what not to do when I have my own children.

I lived with step siblings, and step parents so yes, I often felt they were loved more than me. Also, whenever my mom had a new baby, I felt like she cared about me less. I'm not sure how parents can make sure to treat everyone equally. It must be very difficult!

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-Brittany Brydahl

I grew up the baby of 4 girls. I never really thought that any one of us was favored more than the others.

Now that I am a mother, I really tried to make sure to be equal with my kids. They always say that the birth order leaves the middle child feeling left out. I made a point to spend quality time with each of my children. For sure, my middle child never felt left out. As the others and they may tell you that I favored him

My step-dad always favored my half-sister. I didn't resent her, but I did resent him for a long time. Now, it doesn't bother me, but it did leave me with firm intentions to not play favorites with any of my children because I know how unpleasant it is.

Even though I don't have children of my own yet, I find myself making several mental notes of what to do and what not to do when I am a parent. It's crazy because I feel like I have maternal instincts trying to sneak up on me.