Begins the Day cool: Early in the morning, both spouses should try to remain calm and cool, No discussions or arguments in the early morning hours.
Silence Can Save: When you leave home for work in the morning, be at your behavior. If one of you is provoked or complains, silence is the best answer. Conversely, you can say, “We will discuss it in the evening”.

I think even when there are arguments, it's good to have a break from them and not talk about all the negative things at once.. it can really add up to too much for a person to handle. I think finding the positive in everything is very helpful

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-Brittany Brydahl

For me, I settle everything before I go out of the door. I can't leave home with a thorn in my heart. I always make sure that we are ok before I g to office, its a must for me.

If you go out in the morning with a disturbed mind., how can one concentrate on the job?? Its well and good to settle differences from the begining itself.. Orelse if you putt it off for evening, whole day you are gonna suffer...