When I was newly married we were quite happy we use to share and care each other very well .But now all this is changed We wont even like to sit and spend some time with each other as we sit with each other we start quarreling with each other on some or the other issue .I am fed up with this !Why relations are not like earlier?Can any one give me some suggestions how to cope up with it.

Maybe because you two are just not that intimate like you were before. Why not both of you talk about it without arguing.

you should have more sex.

-F

Relationships change over time because people are constantly changing. As we mature in life our relationships should mature also. Communication is important and should extend beyond talking and include listening.

People change, and they get tired of each other. It's the job of both of you to make sure that you don't drift apart.

Exactly. You've got to try to keep things fresh. Plus, in the beginning you didn't know each other as well. Sometimes, you've got to let some things go and know when it's worth arguing about.

Everyday life with its tasks and difficulties can get in the way. We need to be careful to put our spouse first, and not allow life problems affect the relationship. I would suggest taking a closer look at what you quarrel about. Is it something serious that needs to be resolved or is it some insignificant stuff that is not worth fighting over?

Yeah both of you should really stop arguing it could lead to a much worse situation. Try to do something together just like you both used to do before marriage.