Me and my "on and off for 7 years" boyfriend have just closed on a house and will be movign in together next week. Our parents are forcing the marriage issue. What do you think? Should we go ahead a get married since we will be living together or take our time and wait until the time is right?

what do you think? do you think the time is right?

-F

If you're questioning it, I would say waiting is the best thing. You have the rest of your life to decide. I think when it's time, you'll know without a doubt. Do what makes you happy, not your parents

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-Brittany Brydahl

Your call .... no one's else

I've recently learned that going with your gut (within reason) can be the best decision you may ever make.

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-Brittany Brydahl

My advice would be to live together for a while first before going into marriage.

If you have doubts right now, don't do it just because your parents are pushing for it.

Me and my husband lived together for three years and dated for five before we got married.

Well just wait for the right time don't rush things out. Haste makes waste. Besides you'll never know his true self if you will not live together for a while.

That's a question that you should only ask yourself, as no one's opinion here could be accurate. We don't know you or your partner and much less anything about your relationship. Thus, it is a call that is up to you to make upon considering all the aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend. Good luck

cw4, do you have any updates? Are you still not sure of what you're going to do? We're here if you need to vent..

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-Brittany Brydahl

Hi!
This shows that you yourself is not sure.Do you think, you both love each-other. 7 years is not a short time.Parents are also right from their point of view. We generally don't get this much of time. The decision finally depends on you.It's all your choice....

I think 7 years is high time to decide to marry or not.. Waiting for the right time is really a good thinking..