Damn damn damn! Everything goes so well, then a certain someone, my hubbys ex girlfriends makes contact with my hubby!
My hubby left her long time ago before he met me, she tried getting back with him even when me and hubby were dating, but he didn't want her and told her not to bother. Now the stupid b**** is back. She has been sending my hubby emails, and he did tell me, then she communicated with hubby via a mutual friend!

She even wants to meet up with him, but my husband didn't answer anything to that! I can pull her hair out right now, why cant she take it that my hubby is married to me and loves me, and Im pretty sure she will try her best to get my hubby closer to her! And im sure she ends up seeing him or getting more in contact with him she will just cause problems, as shes the type to.

She wasn't invited to our wedding so she had a fit over that, but we never cared anyway!

Should we tell the mutual friend to not tell anything about us and not bother telling us anything about her either, should I call her up and just tell her to f*** off!

You don't call her up and ask her to **** off. Let your
husband handle that. If your husband sees how you feel
about this and you communicate to your husband, he
should go ahead and tell her or the mutual friend that
he doesn't want to contact her anymore.

-F

I don't think you should get involved at all. I am sure that your husband will know how to handle the situation as he has already been in a relationship with her in the past. If you trust him, you will see that he will be able to resolve the issue without you interjecting and possibly making things worse.

I think you husband don't like to communicate with his ex. you should be glad and let him handle the situation, trust him. just tell him your thoughts, but let him do what he had to do.

Talking to the ex... that sucks!! Honestly though, if you're with your husband, that means you love him, and you trust him, so it will work out.

I've always told my bfs straight up.. I will NOT stop talking to my 1st bf.. he's one of my best friends. As long as he's honest.. it'll be fine Annoying though, I know

Woah, husbands ex wanting to get back in contact...........best thing talk to your husband of what your feeling and thinking, and let him sort it out!

But i know how you must be feeling the girl and jealousy mood and just wanting to bash her up

That's frustrating! I don't know what she is thinking and why she can't leave a married man alone. Your husband seems to be handling it well though: he told you that she is trying to contact him, and he does not want to be in contact with her. I don't think you need to call her, let him handle it. Make sure he knows how you feel, which you have probably already done, and leave it at that.

Why do you have to worry so much? I would agree with everybody. You should tell your husband how you feel and let him handle the situation. Obviously, your husband doesn't want to communicate with his ex girlfriend so trust him.

Have you talked to him about it yet???

Hope Kimmy is not an ex astronaut ;-)

-F