Guys, i am very new to this forum.I am from chennai, India.I got married some 8 yrs back.
I m little fat.For the first 3 years our relationship(SExual) was very good and now its becoming worst...
Only i am the initiator always....Even the interval between the InterCourse is more than a month, he will not bother.Only i ve to start the game..He wont...We have 2 kids..7,4 yrs old.Normally we used to ve sex once in a month... that too because of my interest.
Why is it so?
Please help me
-Rajee

I cant say to exactly why the reason that your husband maybe avoiding you, but I may have some ideas.
There maybe a fact that he may be bothered about something, which he has not shared with you, such as something to do with his health, family matters or something else. So it would be best to talk to him if he has any problems.
He may not have the kind od feling as before when you were newly married...try taking some special time out where its just you two. Go out for a dinner, spend the day together doing things together, watching movies together on the sofa or bed.

Get a makeover done, something noticeable, like a hair cut. You have also metnioned you are a little fat, try reducing some weight so you would look more attractive, put some effort in for him. This will show some innitiative that you want him.

I agree to what Sara has said. Raajeshwari you need tospeak to your husband about this, talk things out with him, which will help you to understand whats wrong with him, and why hes behaving the way he is.

Another point to take action on is to start putting an effort into yourself to making yourself look good, as you havesaid your a little overweight. Making yourself look good will make you feel better about yourself and make your husband happy too.
Good Luck!