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Old 07-23-2009, 02:50 PM
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For you, what could be the ideal age to get married? For me, when a person turns 25 years old, she/he could then get marry. Considering of course that the person is already stable with his/her career. What do you think?
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Old 07-29-2009, 11:13 PM
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I think the right age to get married is between 24-27 years, at this stage your fully mature and learn about life on a wider area, you become aware of responsibilities and this will all allow you to make your future good.

I think being married at a young age, makes you stressed and mentally tired, but unless you are well settled financially and mentally then its ok, but otherwise in the mid 20's is ok.
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Old 07-30-2009, 10:12 AM
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I agree. 25 sounds like a good time.. or older. I think at that point, a person should be over the kidish stage and just all the partying. At this time in their life, they should have a handle on some type of career and are knowing more what they want to do with their life. I am 20 years old by the way.
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For me, the ideal age would be 30 years old. That time, one must have been successful with his career. And I think people matures at that age. The most important thing is that one enjoyed his/her single hood before he/she decides to get marry. Would you agree with me?
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Well, I don't think so if there is an ideal age to get married. For me, as long as both of you are prepared for this obligation and fully matured then you may get married now. Why do we have to think that 25 the best? Some may think that because he/she is already in this age the I have to get married, without even thinking if they could already take all the couples responsibility.
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Old 08-07-2009, 07:38 AM
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I have to admit that I got married very early right out of Highschool . But I am glad that I did . But now that I think about it I would have to say that I think that 22 is a good age to think about marriage . If you are stable with a job and things
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I think someone should not get married too late or too early. At least physically, both conditions are not healthy especially for woman to have a baby. I think the range between 25 - 30 is the ideal age to get married and pregnant.
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That is very true I know someone that was married at 17 . Her father and mother said that it was alright and she I do not think was really ready to fill in the role of being a wife and months down the line a mother . She and I were pregnant and the say time and she thought it was all good to have someone pamper her and then when the real work came it she just about lost her mind . She could not handle it .
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For you, what could be the ideal age to get marry? For me, when a person turns 25 years old, she/he could then get marry. Considering of course that the person is already stable with his/her career. What do you think?
The ideal age for me is 25 years old as well. However, the very thing to be considered when couple get marry would be not be the age but the preparation. Couples should be ready and decided to raise their own family. How about that?
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Old 08-12-2009, 02:32 AM
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The ideal age for me is 25 years old as well. However, the very thing to be considered when couple get marry would be not be the age but the preparation. Couples should be ready and decided to raise their own family. How about that?
I would fully agree with you there ... you should prepare yourself for raising a family. Mainly because you may have a surprise bundle sooner than you think .
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Well, for me, as long as you are both emotionally matured then you are now capable to get married. Do you know that 25-28 years is just an estimated age for the couple? Meaning, if you'll be emotionally matured at the age of 37, of course, you could still get married.
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Hanna- you are right . It does not really matter what age you get marred at as long as you are mental ready for it .. And if you do decide to have a child make sure that you talk your doctor before to make sure that it is not going to harm you in anyway or put you in any danger .
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as for me, age doesn't really matter when to decide to get marry. If you are emotionally, physically and financially ready to have more responsibility then you can marry. Some people at age 25 or older are not even ready to get married and have added responsibilities. But there are some that as young as 21 is already matured and a responsible person.
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Ideally it must be 25-28, but as soon as you think you are ready and at the legal age, then marry!

I agree that you must first be physically, emotionally and mentally ready. And most of all, you must be financially ready. Are you girls familiar with the saying "When poverty comes in at the door, love flies out of the window ." I think it's true. A lot of married couple separates when they experience poverty. I've heard a lot of stories.
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Ideally, I would say 25 would be a good age to get marry. If you have are financially stable then, you should go for it. However, you must consider your partner as well. What if he would like to get marry at the age of 30? Are you willing to wait for it?
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The ideal age for marriage is always changing. It's much older than what it used to be, say thirty years ago. I'm 22, and I would never think about getting married now or even when I was 25. I would rather wait until I'm older and perhaps more mature. I hear a lot of people now are waiting until they're in their thirties. That sounds about right for me.
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