I had been married for 12 years and as it happens after 2 children we were totally bored with each other. Slowly the things were moving towards divorce.

Thanks god I was able to save my marraige and turn it around with some help. Now we have a roacking life and I jsut realised our sexual life is better that it was 12 years back.

My message to everyone who is thinking of quitting, PLEASE TRY AGAIN. It's worth it.

It seems as though your marriage was not that bad after all. Boredom is not quite the reason to get divorced either. However, it is true that couples should consider this issue very carefully before going ahead with a divorce, as it has many repercussions on them and their loved ones as well.

Oh so being sexually active is a good thing to do huh. ) My imaginations are now going wild ahaha.

That's some great advice for any relationship. I think the problem usually starts with miscommunication or lack there of. Once that begins, people tend to give up easily and start thinking of a way out. It can work, if you give it a try, and really work together to make things better. Thanks for sharing!!!

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Pooja, What did you do to save the marriage?

I'm glad that the two of you didn't split up. It makes me sad to see people just leave each other. I think it's best to remind each other that you still love each other. Maybe you should just start by doing nice things for each other.

congratulations to you that you and your hubby didn't break up. It's good that you clear out everything.
It is important that we save our marriage as much as possible. We can just put some spice to our relationship so to avoid boredom

Very good advice. Too many people give up when something still can be done; they either don't know it or do not care.

Did you use professional counselling?