After my dad died, my mom said that she wouldn't get married again because she still loved her husband. I think I would feel the same way as her. Would you remarry or stay single?

I would say I couldn't get remarried. I take marriage very seriously. I'm not a religious person per say, but I think that's a major commitment.

But, years down the road maybe.. it depends on what happens and who you meet. However, that person would always have a SPECIAL place in my heart

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I don't like the idea of marrying again but I am open to possibilities. It would depend on the situation. Do you think age would matter? In my case it would. I mean, if I would be above 50 years old, I don't think remarrying would be a good idea. I would rather think of my kids than myself. Would you do the same?

Yeah, my mom is over fifty years old, and lots of guys still try to talk to her. She still wears her wedding ring, so she can keep the men away. Even if I were young, and my husband died, I still probably wouldn't be open to getting married again.

If I met someone that I could fall in love, yes, I would be with another person. I don't really care if it would be a marriage but I certainly would not remain single if there is someone who is interesting enough to be with.

I probably wouldn't. I know, there is a saying "never say never," because you don't know how life turns and what kinds of people you'll meet, etc. But the way I feel right now, I don't see myself with anyone else.

Life does have its own set of interesting twists and turns, so if I did meet someone that I really liked, I think I would just say single and just date. Marriage is a long process, and it takes a long time to really get to know someone.

When did your husband die? I'm sorry to her that. How old are you, Hirami? I think it would be fine if you go out on date with someone. It's quite hard to live alone. You could still start to have a new life for as long as someone would be willing to spend the rest of his life with you. In my opinion, I am open to marrying again as long as I could find a person whom I would love.

It seems that your mom really love your dad so she doesn't like the idea of getting married to someone other than him. What if one day she met someone and needed your advice whether to marry or not? Would you say yes or no?

My dad died 31 yrs ago. My mom did the dating thing and said that she would never remarry. She said that it is more of a hassle even just dating. This way she has the time to do what she wants for herself and with her grandchildren.

I would not remarry either. I would probably date just for some companionship.

I will be open to possibilities that I can re-marry again in case my husband died. but it doesn't mean that I don't love my late husband already. as long as he can love me as I am and almost the way my late husband did.