If you were left alone by the man whom you truly love for another woman, and then he came back to you because the woman left him for another man, would you give him a second chance? If so, why does he deserve a second chance? If I'm in the same situation, I would give him another chance to re-build our relationship, but if he left me again, I will never give him another chance because he's just playing with my feelings for the second time around.

Well, for me he don't deserved a second chance. If he traitor you ones, how much more for the next time around. Right? I think there's no need of coming back. But the decision is still yours.

Well I would find out the reasons first of all of why he has got another women, and if its something i can improve and can work on then i would stop him going to the other women.

But coming back to the same question I think i would take my man back, because I truly love him, if he doesn't as much at least I do, in order to take him back from after another women.

I don't think he could have a second chance. The logic is that he left you for another then Karma came in to his life to do the same way he did to you. Why would I take some left overs although he was mine first. It's still unforgiveable. It's like you're being used by him.

I don't believe in second chances. I would like to think that we are all old enough to think of consequences of our actions before we take them. I bet that if the woman hadn't left him, he wouldn't have come back. Thus, if someone leaves me for someone else, it is definitely over and done with and there is no going back.

Second chance depends on how you experienced your past relationship. I think you have to decide well if he/she is still worth loving or deserves your second chance. Am I right?

Well, maybe you got a point, kyles. But what if the same situation that you had before will be repeated? Of course, same old story, you'll end up into separation. Am I right?

Well, if the reason he came back to you was the woman leaving him for another man, he definitely don't deserve a second chance. If he betrays you once, it is not impossible that he will do it again in the future.

Yeah a cheater is always a cheater unless you can change him to become a better person. Once trust is ruined then that relationship will not be worthwhile because it will be full of doubts which will end up getting your heart broken again.

I don't believe in giving a second chance to a man who has left me for another woman. I would always think that there is another woman in his life. I mean, I would not be able to trust him anymore. He had done it once, he could betray me again. I'd rather live alone in the security of my thoughts than to live with him again and be tortured with insecurity and mistrust. I can't live with that.

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If you'll ask me, I will never give him a second chance. If I love someone, I wll completely trust him for the rest of my life. I'll be loyal to him as long as I live. But if the man cheated me and I caught him in the act, it only means that he's not the one. I may forgive him for his wrong doing, but I'll never trust him again.

Yeah it's hard to trust someone who tore your hopes into pieces. There will always be a doubt after that in any other relationship that you'll be encountering.

I would give him the benefit of the doubt and another chance, but I wouldnt make it easy for him.

I would honestly have to say to not give him a second chance, but I know when you love someone..it makes our judgment a little skewed. Its really up to you.. I mean, does he realize he made a mistake? But.. Getting back w him wouldn't be healthy in the long run