of-course but why is it considered important by some ? by you ?

@busy bee:-
One Man Woman concept.....!!!!!!!! myt be it seems old fashioned for you.. But i am in favour of that.. Its just ma view point..
Its all about morals and values., and religious beliefs which i follow..



And how much importance do you attach to virginity???

one man one woman concept is "fidelity".... virginity is something else altogether.


Zilch ... Zero ....nothing

whatever...i just believe in having sex with the only man i am gona marry..!!!!!!

no issues ...
whoever said having sex with the man " you are gonna marry" will keep you a virgin ... before marriage ?

regardless of whether you have sex with the one you want to marry or with one you do not want to marry ... the result is the same

and my question still stands why do you think virginity is important ? not fidelity ?

in relatoinships fidelity means sexual monogamy too

it means only that monogamy ......


not that you shouldn't have had any sexual activities before you began the relatinship but while you are in it ... very different from the concept of virginity

so now why do you think virginity is so important ?

not 'too', that's the only thing.

Here, let me clear the differences

you can be a virgin when you marry and then be unfaithful to your husband,
you can be a non-virgin when you marry and still be faithful to your husband.

virginity and fidelity are two orthogonal, unrelated, independant entities.

exactly what I told my husband yesterday ... he happened to read these posts

can't believe he was confused between the two concepts

hehe

he wasn't .... but I was trying to point out the uselessness of the very concept of virginity...

Allow me to interfere in that debate
Not because such a discussion within the themes but I do not I want to respond to

Zilsha Shah

Busy Bee

Farce

You prefer not to talk to me complete and I still respect your opinion and simply respond
Zilsha Shah / Busy Bee

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Shyness is a blessing from the Allah and an expression of femininity

What the heck does that mean ? I dint get what you mean

Of course, this personal choice Dear
I did this for personal choice has a downside with the positives

And not all the decisions we make as we like, there are some decisions that can take without fear of it will affect high negative but I virginity
Or in the proper sense (chastity )

We have no choice in which the sense of loss when we choose to choose its merits and that this is not undisputed

Which determines that is only one thing which is pleasing to God Almighty


And follow a hurry tags

Let me mention something which I consider very important when talking about a ( Virgin Mary) Mary (mother of Jesus)

Why so named I remember it because you know it's an example of chastity in the Islamic religion or the Christian religion, and generally in public morals

When the name was so named is because they did not harm it never

Which did not have sex never has done anything contrary to what was ordered by God even when (Jesus ) was born and this is what the Creator has chosen .

I remember once more that the practice of sex, or touching a girl before marriage all the way say by you or you and others or a farce it all is (adultery), and this taboo and you know this very well and raises the wrath of God and the reward of it (hell) Well

So doing, does not have a choice in order to do so unless you want to hell after death, in order to

This, of course, no one needs never

Customs and traditions and environmental conditions you are talking about no longer be never rule in determining the choices in life also affect the religion that we profess in our lifestyles and Achtyaratna condition, but God never get angry or be contrary to the doctrine of Well

And this is my answer also (Busy bee) asked why virginity is important to us

In addition to the reply that virginity is not only a hymen and it is Example to (the chastity and honor.

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Shyness is a blessing from the Allah and an expression of femininity

the heck ???????????????????????????????

Busy Bee

I guess I understood something
that word I know very well

Do you view, I think ?????????????

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Dear Doaa Meto

I am sorry to be the one who is pointing this out... but it is impossible to read and understand your posts , the language in which you are writing doesnt make any sense at all... you use words which mean certain things only to you and the grammar is also quite atrocious enough that reading your posts will give a mighty headache.

Since i cannot make any sense of your posts I am not going to respond to any of your posts unless at the first glance i can make out what you are trying to say.

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I think you are talking terms have no meaning at all, but you must take into account so I'm talking in English I do not think there is a problem I think it has it you have you

I spoke the Arabic language and this is my nationality and I try to make you understand very well what I say

I did not ask you to translate what you write because I type and talk in English

I was a I translated for myself and understand and respond to you

Why do you want more than that

Do you want me to speak in Arabic ????????????

I think that my words clear and understandable a lot


what is the Meaning of (heck):??????????????????????



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chastity



If you really do not understand what I mean
I'll put my order link and got confused in order to be a clear idea of the Dyke
Which is what they mean is (that the meaning of chastity, virginity equals)



http://pages.prodigy.net/jmiller.cb/a387.html

This is another link would explain the idea more and more what I want to search for it in our discussion this

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Shyness is a blessing from the Allah and an expression of femininity

You wrote "...but I do not I want to respond to..." above

so is it

a) you want to respond?
b) you don't want to respond?

I mean this
When I wrote (Not because such a discussion within the themes)

I do not do Something like this
Because this my thread

Understand?

And I really have to respond


thank you
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Shyness is a blessing from the Allah and an expression of femininity

so why did you put "but I do not" in the first place?????

I think you are very far from the original topic we are talking about

And talking about something I do not understand at all

I wish you to speak on the subject is better

thank you again

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Shyness is a blessing from the Allah and an expression of femininity

I agree, but for that I/others must understand what you are talking about on the subject matter right???

@doaa meto:
I do agree with punch bala that the posts you make is eating our brains like anything because we find it difficult to understand your posts... I really want to respond to your comments but unfortunately i cant make out what exactly you are ponting out..
Next time hope you will post in a manner which all of us can understand.

but you Zilsha can go on telling us all .. we are able to understand your language


so tell me


why is "virginity " important for you ?

Every country, community has their own way of speaking/writing English. I have a British accent and most people ask me to repeat my words again and again in India at times and same is the case with Scottish accent, Londoners find it difficult to understand leave alone other countries.

I would request members to respect each other and bear with each others language skills because geographical boundaries do not apply on the internet and we get to meet people from different regions of the world.