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First love never dies. Its will remain forever. Its hard to forget the first one you love.

well, my first love is wonderful but time, feelings and circumstances have torn as apart. Let us just say that we have thank each other for the memories.

Although I had couple of relationships during my school days. But I met my first love through internet in first year of my college. She is a Punjabi girl and 3 years elder to me. We were in a relationship for 4 years. But her parents married her to another guy too early (24). I was heart-broken and shattered. Literally abused her too. But later I realized my mistake and apologized. I was in contact with her for next 1 year. But now I've broken all contacts. I rarely log into that messenger where I met her. Even if I do, I'm always invisible!

Aaah Maddy, thats really sad! But hey i suppose its good you apologized to her, im sure it must not have been a step she wanted to take either.
You shouldnt change your routine or they way you do things because of this, log into your messenger but being visable, if she talks to you its fine if she doesnt then its still ok, thats if you like, but life goes on.

My first crush was in college, he was in the same class as me for a year and i started liking him more and more. We got together and dated even after college, then things went out of place and after that never kept in contact.

I apologized cuz I realized that things were not in her control... And I was just a kid then... I mean I was nothing... Couldn't even ask her to marry me instead... Felt so helpless...

But this time I've learnt from my mistakes... My present girlfriend is 6 years younger to me... I've all the time to build my career till her daddy decides to marry her to someone!

For me, an Ex-girlfriend is always Ex... I have never maintained contact with any of them... Less emotions, you live longer and happier!

I don't log into messenger cuz I'm bored of it... just log in sometimes to check offlines of few old friends in the list!

Seems you follow same rule!

For me, I have kept in touch with some ex-girlfriends,
some I am very close with even now, some I just maintain
email contact, some I have totally lost contact, though I
would like to meet them once again and see how they are
doing.

-F

Yes! I ended up with same the person... thankfully! When your First love is a success, it's like your dream comes true and you are on the top of the world.

Indeed... It is!

I always fancied and had crushes on people, but I never really loved anyone as such! Was kind of always busy with family and studies so never went down the line of dating and all, got married and really hubby was first love.

Love is the beautiful thing, cannot have words to express. My first love is during my college days when i was 21, with my husband. That was my first and ever last love. I am so lucky to get the most lovable person to me as my husband.