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Old 03-14-2010, 11:48 AM
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I really think women expect too much from men. We tend to believe that they need to do things for us and we shouldn't have to do much for them. Why is this? It's just something that I think needs to change.
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Old 03-14-2010, 04:44 PM
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I really think women expect too much from men. We tend to believe that they need to do things for us and we shouldn't have to do much for them. Why is this? It's just something that I think needs to change.
In India, it is the other way around! Men expect that women should do everything for them .This has been the case for generations , but many of the women are so used to it that they don't mind!
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Old 03-14-2010, 05:43 PM
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In India, it is the other way around! Men expect that women should do everything for them .This has been the case for generations , but many of the women are so used to it that they don't mind!
True.. it's so strange how people are the way they are because of how they are raised. I'm so glad I rebelled, because my mom didn't teach me anything useful anyways haha
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I have seen both: men who expect their wife to serve as their personal maid, and women who expect to sit around and do nothing except spending the husband's money. It has a lot to do with the way they were raised. In most cases, they expect what they saw growing up in their own family.
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I have seen both: men who expect their wife to serve as their personal maid, and women who expect to sit around and do nothing except spending the husband's money. It has a lot to do with the way they were raised. In most cases, they expect what they saw growing up in their own family.
Blaming somebodies faults on their parents is not a great idea..

When a person is good a person is good..
When a person is bad their parents are bad.. This is not fair..

Everybody has a choice... If your parents didn't bring you up well that doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want and just put the blame on the parents.

Everybody has to correct themselves..

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I agree, everyone has a their own point of view in life. I don't expect that much in my partner and he doesn't as well. I guess that depends on the couple of how they handle their lives together.
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One can expect too much only if they live upto the other persons expectation...
So better not to expect anything from anyone..
Expectation hurtsss....
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