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Old 03-09-2010, 09:49 PM
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When did you realize you were in love? How long did it take? For me, I was always curious about my bf, and hung out with him for two days. I knew I could fall in love with him and knew we would work out. I can picture myself being with him for the rest of my life
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The first sight..
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Old 03-09-2010, 09:56 PM
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Honestly? Hmm.. that's so interesting.. you sure it wasn't lust, or just interest? Can you explain more. I'm so curious!
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Honestly? Hmm.. that's so interesting.. you sure it wasn't lust, or just interest? Can you explain more. I'm so curious!
It was not lust.. As i told before.. Me and my wife were in the same school, Then after the high school we went our different ways..

After almost 15 years we both happened to be in the same city we met each.. we met each other out of sheer coincidence.

to cut the long story short... After 25 days we are married.. then we had to leave the country because we started getting death threats.. (Another Bollywood story)
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It was not lust.. As i told before.. Me and my wife were in the same school, Then after the high school we went our different ways..

After almost 15 years we both happened to be in the same city we met each.. we met each other out of sheer coincidence.

to cut the long story short... After 25 days we are married.. then we had to leave the country because we started getting death threats.. (Another Bollywood story)
That is so interesting. The more I think about it, seeing my bf for the first time was basically love at first site. But, maybe not lol. I just remember seeing him with his shirt off after he was getting out of the shower. I couldn't stop staring. He had this amazing smile and was so sweet. I was drawn to him. The more I talked to him the more and more interested I got. I knew within 2 days of hanging out, probably less..more like a few hours that I loved him. I wanted to be with him so bad :P

Now, I feel like the luckiest girl in th world
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Good for you..
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to cut the long story short... After 25 days we are married.. then we had to leave the country because we started getting death threats.. (Another Bollywood story)
Death threats? Sounds very mysterious !! I never thought ordinary ppl could get death threats!!Ohh! Perhaps you are not ordinary ! lol
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Death threats? Sounds very mysterious !! I never thought ordinary ppl could get death threats!!Ohh! Perhaps you are not ordinary ! lol
It happens only in India..
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It happens only in India..
May I ask why it happened? I was going to earlier, but I guess I thought you were kidding. That's terrifying.
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These kind of things happens when people go ahead and do court marriage without the consent of the family and parents.
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These kind of things happens when people go ahead and do court marriage without the consent of the family and parents.
Oh wow. Well, I'm just glad you're safe and happy. You did the right thing
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Oh wow. Well, I'm just glad you're safe and happy. You did the right thing
Aaal Izzz well..
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Death threats? Sounds very mysterious !! I never thought ordinary ppl could get death threats!!Ohh! Perhaps you are not ordinary ! lol
You must have lived a very sheltered life ;-)

It's pretty common actually.

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When did you realize you were in love? How long did it take? )
some after 2 seconds, some a few months, some after 20 years,
sometimes over the phone. One time immediately after I got
mad and yelled at her for falling in love with me.

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You must have lived a very sheltered life ;-)

It's pretty common actually.

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That's true!!
I have seen such things only in movies!
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When did you realize you were in love? How long did it take?
When she posted on Women's Forum that she was in love with me.
probably about 9 months after we joined WF.
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When she posted on Women's Forum that she was in love with me.
probably about 9 months after we joined WF.
Hahahahahaha
9 months = baby....
wait... what? haha Random thoughts
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Lol that's a sweet story. Love begins when you least expects it. I don't even remember when did I exactly fell head over heals inlove with my husband before.
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