I'm not sure why, but a lot of girls don't tell their bfs when something is wrong. How are they supposed to fix what they don't know about? And then the girls turn around and get mad at the guys for not noticing. Why do us girls do this? I've been there..

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-Brittany Brydahl

Excellent point. Some women expect their men to be mind readers, and it is just not smart. If something is wrong, tell him - then he will know how to fix it or what to do differently. My husband tells me his mom used to play this "What's wrong?" - "Nothing" game. I can easily see how it would drive a man nuts.

I used to be the QUEEN of this game, and I'm not even sure why. I just have a very hard time talking about my feelings most of the time. It's weird and it annoys me. Inside my head I'm confident, and then the words just won't come out

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-Brittany Brydahl

In most cases, women who do this feel that "He should know what's wrong" - especially if the man did something absolutely terrible, in their opinion. Well, the problem is, sometimes the guy honestly has no clue, and "something terrible" is rather innocent in his eyes. He does not know, so the woman needs to tell.

I'm just like that, the problem is my husband is not a very good listener which makes things worse. He fails to understand that I spend all day with the girls and he is the only adult I get to converse with most of the time.

Have you ever had a conversation with yourself where you plan exactly what you are going to say to your man, but then chiken it at the last minute. I do that all the time.

I do that all the time. Like, if he were at work or something and I was texting him, I could type it just fine. I just have issues communicating. I guess it's cuz I grew up being told to keep my mouth shut. Like, when I cry I get embarrassed and dont want anyone to see me. I become a little kid again.. I hate it

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-Brittany Brydahl