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Old 12-10-2009, 05:44 PM
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I know this may sound strange, but I don't feel like I'm in love with someone until I can do everything in front of them. If I can't go to the bathroom with them in there with me, then I feel like we aren't close enough. Maybe it's just me, because that's how my bfs and I have always been. It's honestly something that could probably be a deal breaker with me lol. I know it sounds so weird lol, but if a guy can't accept that a girl goes to the bathroom, then I just don't feel like I can be myself around him. For me, doing that is the first step in being able to do other things, like opening myself up.

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Old 12-10-2009, 08:24 PM
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Yes I know how you feel, at first you will feel uncomfortable and shy about doing all such things together. You'll get used to it but first he should make you feel comfortable.
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Old 12-12-2009, 12:34 AM
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I'm been married 6 years and in love with my husband and I do not go to the bathroom in front of him. I just wouldn't want to. I can walk around naked, but no way would I want to go to the bathroom in front of him. I don't think it affects the love that either one of us feels for the other.
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Wow...that's another level of comfort. I know I wouldn't want anyone to be in the bathroom with me unless we'd been married for so long that we just stopped caring. I know for sure that I don't want to do everything together.
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I am a very private person, and I think there are things that need to be done in private. I love my husband and trust him, but there's no way I'd use the bathroom with him present. I do not want him (or anyone) to see it.
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Old 12-12-2009, 01:07 PM
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I understand the other side of this as well. I guess I'm just a really open person
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Btw did you mean go to shower together in the bathroom? I'm getting the feeling of anything else that you do in the bathroom hehehe.
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Old 12-12-2009, 08:15 PM
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My husband and I have always been very comfortable with eachother, regardless of what we're doing. But what I appreciate the most about relationship is the fact that we never keep anything from eachother, even when one of us knows that the other one might not be too pleased with certains things we might have done. I think an open communication is the most important factor in having a successful relationship.
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