I think porn has such a negative impact on a relationship. It can bring out a lot of the insecurities that a female has about sex. What are your thoughts/stories?

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-Brittany Brydahl

I disagree completely. It is just like any other movie where you see people acting and these people have nothing more or less than we do. It can even spice up certain things in a relationship by trying the different positions that people see in the movies. I am not quite sure how it can bring insecurities in someone's life - can you be more specific?

I am with you on this one Brittany. I can't tell you how many stories I have heard about husbands watching porn, to the point of addiction, while having little or no sex with their wives. Normal sex isn't enough anymore, their heads are stuffed with all those disgusting images they have seen, so they go online to satisfy themselves and care little about how it makes the wife feel.

I see where both of you are coming from. I guess it really depends on the situation. I have just heard from too many friends that guys got completely obsessed and could never be satisfied, because they became desensitized to sex, and then nothing seems to be enough.

I do know what you mean ButterflyEs, it really can spice things up as long as both people are open to it I'm moving more towards that, but porn is a tough thing for me to get used to.. never known anyone who was into it before..

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-Brittany Brydahl

I am staying out of this thread

It's completely understandable Brittany and should not be imposed on anyone either. But what I'm referring to is not obsession. There are lines to be drawn in everything a person does. One does not have to be into it and watch it all the time either. But if my husband wanted to watch a flick once in a while to try something different, I would not find it disgusting. That's just my opinion.

I agree with you there. Okay, maybe I'm not against it like I thought

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-Brittany Brydahl