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Old 10-05-2009, 03:31 AM
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Getting in a relationship, be it as a married couple, engaged relationship or as boyfriend and girlfriend sometimes doesn't always gone down well, and people end splitting up! But when this happens its sometimes hard for some to let go......!

In order for you to let go of someone its kind of a mind thing, being strong and the fact of thinking logically and not thinking through your heart!

For those people who can leave a relationship without the least pain and problem, whats that that enables them to do that?

For those who cant let go and struggle to move on and accept things what is it that makes you feel like that, and to a point that it affects everything in your life to go bad?
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Old 10-06-2009, 03:20 AM
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When a person gets out of a relationship without feeling pain, I think that means one of two things. One, the person wasn't emotionally invested in the relationship. Two, the person has a hard time dealing with their emotions and thus doesn't express what they're feeling.
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Old 10-06-2009, 07:32 PM
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I have always been the type that lets go very easily and I have quite a few times in the past. My logic is very simple actually. When something has run its course, there is no point in beating the dead horse and what's best for everyone is to walk away from it. Knowing that, it is a waste of energy to keep thinking about what could have been or what should have been done to make the relationship work. Somethings are just not meant to be...
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Old 10-07-2009, 03:57 AM
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I've always been able to let go easily, but some of my friends have a much harder time. The important thiing is to always make sure you do what makes you happy, and to make sure you aren't unhappy for someone else's benefit.
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Old 07-02-2010, 11:26 AM
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Letting g0 is one of the hardest thing.. Letting go off memories, past experience and that special person is really tough..
But at times even if you dont want to let go, you opt to take such a decision.. Letting go is such a strong decision if both the couples are so much emotionally attached.. Its really hard to accept that..
But we just should understand that they are not bad people, its that they were a part of our story which is over and a begining of new life..
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