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Old 09-22-2009, 08:13 AM
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Different feelings but so close to each other.

Sometimes I get so shocked with how we get to love and hate someone so quickly.

An atittude can turn love into hate and vice versa, specially with beloved ones.

What do you think about it?
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Old 09-27-2009, 12:35 PM
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Very often, love turns into hate when it is betrayed. Someone falls in love, believes that the other person sincerely loves them as well, and then finds out it was not so. When the person they love does something hurtful that proves they don't care, it is easy for many people to respond in this way - hate their guts.
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Old 09-28-2009, 12:08 AM
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Hate is such a nasty word, but when you love someone and they let you down, hate can exist.

When you fall in love, you put your whole soul into the relationship, sometimes this makes us vulnerable so if things do go wrong it makes it so much easier to hate.
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I'm not sure that I have ever truly hated someone. I mean, my mom treated me terribly, but at the end of the day, I can never hate her. I never want to speak to her again and I want her out of my life to a point. I'm very confused about the whole situation... Now, I hate people who murder and do terrible things.. that to me is unforgivable.
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They say that we could only either love and hate people. I think these two goes hand in hand. It's like when we are happy, we should expect to be hurt too. Could it be possible to have a relationship without hate? I mean it helps both of you to grow in all aspects of your life.
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Even though they're opposites, they are very closely related. Both emotions drive people to do irrational things. Like trust, it takes a long time for love to develop, but hate can happen very quickly.
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Old 09-29-2009, 06:07 AM
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I don't see it that way. First of all, I don't believe in ''hating'' anyone or anything. There are two basic emotions love and fear. Hate is poison for the mind and I don't think for one minute that when we love someone in its true sense, it would be possible to hate them regardless of what they have done.
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I don't see it that way. First of all, I don't believe in ''hating'' anyone or anything. There are two basic emotions love and fear. Hate is poison for the mind and I don't think for one minute that when we love someone in its true sense, it would be possible to hate them regardless of what they have done.
I agree with you ButterflyEs. I think true love will not turn into hate. Even if the person we love has done something bad to us and we go separate ways, there will be pain, but no hate. Hate is a strong word.
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When you've been someone that you have loved for so long, and you find yourself gradually becoming bored with that person, I think you will start to get picky about them. You may not realize it at first, but that could very well gradually turn into hate.
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