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Old 12-29-2008, 02:10 AM
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It’s a saying that a family is complete with two kids. But the relationship between the two kids is very different every where. When the second baby comes in the elder baby feels left out, ignored but the bonding between the two increases gradually. If the two kids are daughters then the relationship between the two sisters is more of friendly and it is not just the sisters don’t fight with each other or they share everything among themselves. These all do are part of sisterly relationships but as the two grow up there need for each others company and advice increases. They are more of protective towards each other when they have to face the world together.
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Old 01-05-2009, 06:59 PM
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I dont' have a sister and i really wish i had one. a sister is a friend who will not leave just for the fact that she doesn't like your face or she is tired of sharing her room with you. she is the best friend.
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I have two! Lucky me! I have proven that even if we do have plenty of individual differences all along, I can also say that at the end of the day, I can be assured of their support and understanding especially when all things have benn kept at a calm persp ective.
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Old 05-20-2009, 08:26 PM
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I have three sisters. Growing up, we fought constantly! Now that we are adults, we are so close. We always get together for sisters outings and sisters nights out.
If you would have asked me when I was a teenager if I liked my sisters I would have said no. Now they are very important in my life.
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I don't know exactly why, but sisters, like in my situation, always fights specially in their teenager years but when they become adults, they become best friends. This happened to me. Maybe its because children just really don't understand things that much and that's just the reason why.
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Old 07-02-2009, 01:37 PM
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I don't have a sister, I'm the only daughter in our family but I consider my cousin a sister and best friend. We grew up together, sharing our stuffs, and helping each other if we have problem. Do you have the same relationship with your cousin too?
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I was the only kid, and I know that if I had any siblings we'd most likely fight. I was a selfish, competitive brat. Now I'm scared that if I have children, they will turn out the same way, LOL. I won't put up with it.
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I really love my sisters a lot. They are my best friend and protector all the time. I always feel secure when I'm with them and they can be trusted with almost everything. Would you agree that they are the best companion when it comes to our problems? I love my friends but I love my sisters more.
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Maybe, it is common to have sibling rivalry among sisters. This is what I usually observed with my cousins. What do you think is the main reason, why this treat is being brought? Well, I don't have any experience about this because I don't have a sister.
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Well, I think chjoy, this kind of situation is one thing that can't be avoided among sibling. We just have to face the reality that it really exists. Am I right?
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Old 07-24-2009, 10:03 AM
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Yes, maybe your right, kyles. But, you know what, based also on what I have observed parents should be very sensitive enough with there children emotions. Because, they don't know that one of them are already planted bad emotions on how they trained to grew up. Am I right?
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Well, sibling rivalry between two sisters usually starts when they love the same guy. It happens here and there and sometimes it ruins the relationship amongst those sisters.
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I really agree on that. I do have a sister and during our childhood days we often quarrel, its like we are in an action movie. But now that we grew older, we are bestfriends. She shared her problems. love stories and secrets with me, I do also with mine. I kept on advising each other.
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sisters relationships depends on their age difference. when their age difference is more they don't share all the things and maintain some distance... but if it is one or two years difference they are able to share all the things without any hesitations and mostly their relationship seems more like friends than sisters....
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I have 2 sisters one of them is really kind and the other is a super meanie. She keeps on bossing me around like she's older than me. Good thing I had this one good sister who understands my feelings she's really dear to me.
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My cousins had a sibling rivalry with her sister. They always quarrel with there stuffs. Do you think this rivalry could still be possible when they become old?
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I don't think so once they think maturely they will realize that fighting over small things will be riddiculous. I personally experienced it so whenever she annoys me I would never argue with her.
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It sounds like everyone has such a good relationship with their sister. That's so nice. It's a shame that I'll never know that feeling. I don't have a sister, and I'm not close with any of my female relatives my age.
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Old 08-17-2009, 08:38 AM
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It’s a saying that a family is complete with two kids. But the relationship between the two kids is very different every where. When the second baby comes in the elder baby feels left out, ignored but the bonding between the two increases gradually. If the two kids are daughters then the relationship between the two sisters is more of friendly and it is not just the sisters don’t fight with each other or they share everything among themselves. These all do are part of sisterly relationships but as the two grow up there need for each others company and advice increases. They are more of protective towards each other when they have to face the world together.
When I was young, I don't really like my sister. Actually, we hated each other. However, as time passes, we tend to change. I can't believe that she would turned out to be the best adviser I ever have. She always guide me in everything I do. We still have fights but, it's a petty one. I cook her favorite food whenever she helps me. How about you? How would you thank your sister?
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Of course, its just normal that an early stage, siblings would quarrel each other. However, when they get older, they would realize that they are doing wrong.
Do you know also that, when you get old that would be something you'll miss with your siblings?
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I can agree. I'm 25 and my younger sister is going to be 17 this year. I feel as if we have gotten a lot more closer over the pass few years and I look forward to the times I can be there for her in the future. I'm excited!
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