Have you ever been in love with 2 people at once? How did you handle the situation?

Can't say I had the exact same situation but a sort of reverse,
two or more people have been in love with me ;-)

Hmm... Not really. I rarely even hear of relationships like that. In my place, men are monogamous. They may lie to you but they never two-time.

Lol. I hear your farce! It's kind of the same situation...the only reason the individual is in love with two people is because they were simply head over heels over her, which caused her to be in love with them both, and was forced to make a decision.

I rarely heard of it happening either (only in movies...lol), but everyone says that until it happens to them. And if a man is lying to you then he is probably lying about two-timing. What other reason would he have to lie?

I have actually and its not a good feeling. Its terrible because you don't wanna make anyone feel less special or less loved. For me..when I broke up with my ex (which was the best decision of my LIFE)..I started dating too soon. So ya, the feelings were still very strong and confusing with my ex. Luckily, I'm still with my bf and we have an apt together.

What I think made things work for us is openness and honesty. I tell him everything and it makes our bond that much stronger

I've never been in this situation before, but in the end, someone's going to get hurt. That's inevitable because you have to pick somebody, right? Then there's all the feelings of whether you made the right decision or not. Honestly, I think it's too much of a hassle to love two people at once.

I haven't been in that situation. I think it would be impossible to love two person at the same time with the same degree. If you have fallen for someone while you are still in a relationship, you better let go of the other person. That is the best way to solve the problem. How about that?

Could that be possible? I don't think we could love two person at the same time. If ever you experience it, you should set the other free. You would only hurt the other person and that is not good.

I guess that could be possible. However, it did not happen to me yet. I would agree with the other poster that you should let go someone. Did you love them at the same time or you were in a relationship when the other one came?

I think all of you have really good points!! I feel it's something that happens when you're confused and you THINK you're in love. I didn't figure out what love was until recently. I haven't been with my current bf for very long, but there's just this sense of love/care when I'm around him. He really cares what I think and how I'm feeling. I've never had someone give me so much attention. It's wonderful! (He's the third person I've ever been with) I'm still learning a lot and I'm being careful this time.. I'm honestly happy and have no doubts about him in my mind. Before, I always had doubts. I wish I coulda realized that was a sign I was with the wrong person.. o well, that's life I guess

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