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Old 08-17-2009, 09:22 AM
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I guess every body heard this question before. Would you choose someone who loves you or the person you love? I just want to know your opinion about it. As for me, I would choose someone I love because I know I would be happier. How about you?
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Old 08-17-2009, 09:35 AM
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how about finding somebody who you love who loves you back?

i would be miserable if i were with somebody i loved and they didn't love me back, or vice versa...

takes time and work but finding somebody who feels the same way about you as you do about them is definitely worth it. I wouldn't have it any other way.
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Old 08-17-2009, 12:12 PM
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Yes definitely right on the spot trinale. I would find someone who will love me back because if you choose the one whom you love then the guy choose the one who loves him. So there will be no mutual feelings but then again some things do change and love can be learned too.
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Old 08-17-2009, 05:40 PM
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I will also choose the one I love but...who loves me also. Love is a two way relationship that means both parties should feel the same way. Love will not work if only one has the love.
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Old 08-18-2009, 12:41 AM
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I would definitely go for mutual love. If I choose someone that I love who doesn't necessarily love me back as much, it is a recipe for disaster anyway. The other way around is not good either because sooner or later, I would get fed up with that person and leave them. Thus, either mutual love or staying single.
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Old 08-19-2009, 07:04 AM
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I tried both ways. at first I choose someone I really love. though the feeling is mutual but I feel my love is greater than him. what happens is that I just got hurt at the end. So I tried choosing someone who loves me more. And I am happy. he never hurt me or made me cry.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:38 PM
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I would choose someone who loves me. However, are we really assured that the person who loves us will not leave us? It would be best if both of you love each other.
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There would be nothing wrong with the person who loves us however, I would prefer someone whom I love. I would feel contented and satisfied with my life if that person would love me back as well. How would you say "no" to them?
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Well, I rather choose for a person who loves me. Do you agree that love of

women can be develop? If you see a person loving you or showing something

good to you, I guess, that could be a reason of falling in love with him.
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Old 08-19-2009, 02:56 PM
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Nothing wrong in both and being true you need it both ways someone you love and someone who loves you back.

You need both to be in a good relationship, without either I don't think it would really work.
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Old 08-20-2009, 07:32 AM
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Well, I rather choose for a person who loves me. Do you agree that love of

women can be develop? If you see a person loving you or showing something

good to you, I guess, that could be a reason of falling in love with him.
Really? I think that was my friend's case too. She had a developed feeling for her first boyfriend but they didn't end up together. I heard that love could only last for two years. Do you think it's true?
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Old 08-21-2009, 12:24 AM
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How can you say that? There are a lot of couples who lasted for how many years yet still in love with each other. I think when you truly love someone there will be no limit to it.
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Old 08-21-2009, 12:28 AM
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Really? I think that was my friend's case too. She had a developed feeling for her first boyfriend but they didn't end up together. I heard that love could only last for two years. Do you think it's true?
yes, two years is standard, unless you get the extended warranty.


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yes, two years is standard, unless you get the extended warranty.


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I think some people would believe that love would last for two years only. Of course, that would depend on the couples too. Warranty has expiration and I don't think we could extend it. I guess, when we would request for extension, we have to pay for the maintenance. Do you agree?
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Really? I think that was my friend's case too. She had a developed feeling for her first boyfriend but they didn't end up together. I heard that love could only last for two years. Do you think it's true?
I don't think that's true. For me, love would last a lifetime as long as both of you believe and trust each other. I think it could be lessen however it wouldn't end. Actually, I haven't heard about this before and it's quite interesting. How did they test it?
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Old 08-23-2009, 01:32 AM
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Honestly, both would be great, but how long must someone wait before that person comes along? Really?
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