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Old 03-19-2010, 10:43 AM
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My in-laws have no grand children yet. And they keep on pressuring us to have children. We have been trying so hard to have a baby but it until now we still don't have a baby. It's been 3 years and still nothing.

Who else has the same experience as this? A very stressing pressure.
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Old 03-25-2010, 10:59 AM
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We haven't had kids for years, but, thank God, there was no pressure from either set of parents. I can imagine how hard it would be though, especially since you want to have a baby yourself, and you are trying to conceive. Have you talked to them and explained? They should understand that wanting children and being able to conceive are two different things. Sometimes it does not happen as soon as we want to, and there is not much we can do about it.
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We haven't had kids for years, but, thank God, there was no pressure from either set of parents. I can imagine how hard it would be though, especially since you want to have a baby yourself, and you are trying to conceive. Have you talked to them and explained? They should understand that wanting children and being able to conceive are two different things. Sometimes it does not happen as soon as we want to, and there is not much we can do about it.
I have talked to them about it but they keep on telling the same stories that they are old enough and need to see their grandchildren.
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You really should take this as a compliment that your inlaws love you enough that they want to see you having their grandchildren. When my husband and I were married 1 yr, I was pregnant and my mother in laws comment was...." So soon!" It really hurt my feelings.
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You really should take this as a compliment that your inlaws love you enough that they want to see you having their grandchildren. When my husband and I were married 1 yr, I was pregnant and my mother in laws comment was...." So soon!" It really hurt my feelings.
How I wish it happened to us.
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hey dont get stressed.even u too wanted toave kid right,as being elder they r likethis.just ignore & don't take pr:s.Stress is one major factor obstruting pregnancy.
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hey dont get stressed.even u too wanted toave kid right,as being elder they r likethis.just ignore & don't take pr:s.Stress is one major factor obstruting pregnancy.
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